Thank you to everyone to gave me such great advice, contributed and took interest in my adventure into gardening! We've gotten past the point of me being able to respond to everyone but know that I've been reading, digesting, and am appreciative of everyone's responses! I very much resonate with small controlled expirimentation as a way of learning. I very much enjoy taking notes and iterating on approaches as I have done in several other hobbies like rearing insects and aquarium building. I think perhaps similar principles will apply and things tend to just get easier after you do it the hard way 10 times, suddenly you see an (obvious in hindsight) better way of doing it.
For those who are curious, I think I will opt to go with more of a permenant, perrenial ecosystem rather than classic veggie gardens. Fruits, nuts, berries, and perennial herbs that can reset on their own with a little bit of effort each year. This has been where a lot of my reading has lead me and what seems to be getting me the most excited. And not just because I am lazy! (although I can't say the low effort part is a little bit appealing) but also I just LOVE the idea of thinking about perhaps being able to transform my land so much so that it could even outlive me. Maybe one day some future human will buy my land and find a little corner of the woods that still pouring out produce and feed their family with it
Love that..
P.S. I have included update pics since I submitted the post originally. I've got all the sheet mulch beds down in one (I think managably sized?) corner of my yard. Its 4 beds with paths between that total roughly 280sqft. Hopefully that won't be too much for years one... Also I've started some seeds in my basement of a few species that really interest me like seabuckthorn, table grapes, and walking onions.