Hi John, I loved what you wrote. Especially meaningful to me was the part about the tribe and how you suggest that in a perfect community no one would need to be without a mate because no one would be alone in their search. This is exactly how I feel, and it's the kind of reality I want to create. If we want it, if society needs it, we have to make it happen, knowing that is right is always assisted by heaven. I also come from a family that I love, but never fit in. My ultimate goal is to start a utopian type community where the sense of family is strong and everyone pulls together as one. The community would be similar to The Farm in my homestate of Tennessee, except the governing laws would be Design Laws, simply the moral laws built into the universe which are as inviolable as physical laws. I have done a lot of work on the idea. It seems you would be a great fit for such a community/family. Please let me know your thoughts.
As for love, I'm looking for what you describe. I'm looking for a man who will know me instantly as his mate. I actually had a dream about a week ago that I was traveling and got lost. I found myself in a utopian community surrounded by people connected by an indescribable love and peace. A man came up to me, wrapped his arms around me loosely, and looking toward members of his community/family exclaimed joyfully, "I found my mate! I found my mate." It was a beautiful dream. Later, we were all walking through a beautiful meadow praising our Father in heaven.
John, I wish you all the best in your journey.
Blessings,
Deborah