Just my perspective here, not wishing to judge anything about the specific situation you posted on. That said, college for young people coming out of HS is still (almost) always a GOOD idea. The 'almost' means, you have to have a good answer to questions like: can I afford it (or, how will I afford it?)? do I have something truly intestesting, with reasonable practical significance, that I want to study? where do I want to go and is it a good environment at present?
In short, it's not for everybody, but if one has the intellect and approaches it the right way, I think it's wrong for us a society to think that formal education should not include a college degree. I came from middle class, midwest roots, and I'm now in early semi-retirement in the PNW (Bend, OR) - there is NO way I could have what I have today without my college degrees. I am talking about some material things, but certainly that's only part of, not the whole story.
I do totally understand that others may disagree. Thanks, Ed