A.G. Price

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I believe that a core component of successful partnerships in romantic relationships is the predetermined disposition of each individual to build kindred community among each other. More specifically, I believe that successful relationships--especially romantic ones--succeed when individuals are willing to give 100% with the dependency of spontaneous reciprocity, co-building something larger than the sum of the individuals themselves. Certainly, how individuals dedicate themselves to a common cause varies among different types of relationships, whether romantic, friendly, business, or otherwise. Currently, I'm searching for permaculture community of all types. I started a thread in the intentional community forum (https://permies.com/t/367646/Man-homestead-seeking-permaculture-community), but I decided to also post here, as I also desire that special permaculture woman. Please check out the linked thread for some basic details about me, my situation, and goals.

So, what about this "yes, and..." philosophy? I'm still understanding what it means, but here's my basic conclusion: Community of any kind should be at the very least additive, at worst divisive, and at best synergistic--being something beyond the sum of the parts. Community has many forms and all have their places. My goal is synergy among the individual contributions--an elusive goal to be sure. I view a romantic partnership not as a replacement for other elements of community but as the addition of something superior yet complimentary to the existing components. In practice, I'm very much still learning what this means. I have had many failures, a few successes, and other simply notable outcomes. But I know that I want to be with a woman who also is looking to build something bigger than herself and who sees permaculture as both a philosophical and pragmatic framework to build that bigger thing. I'm looking for a woman who sees a romantic relationship not only as intrinsically valuable itself but also as a platform of partnership for building additional community in the permaculture context. In my particular case, I'd like for this platform of partnership to include having children, but the building of additional community involves many other aspects too: making friends, growing intentional community, and being an apostle of permaculture are a few examples.

I suppose that I should include a few additional concrete details about myself here. Please check out my other post linked above for additional details. I'm about 6'2" (188 cm) and I have good teeth. (Evidently these details are important lol.) I have a somewhat muscular build but with a bit of fat around the midsection. But I can and do work hard outside. I live in northern Michigan near the tip of the lower peninsula. I own my land and home and have started the process of permaculture there. I'd like to stay where I'm currently located, though I can certainly travel to visit. I'm reluctant to share a photo of myself here just because it will be on the Internet for literally forever, thanks to the Wayback Machine (https://web.archive.org/). But I'd be happy to share a portrait of myself via some other means or have a video call at some point. Also, historically, I haven't done a good job at responding to inquiries, but I will do my best to respond in at least a day or two if you reach out. Feel free to reach out here, to send me a PM, or to email me at capped_magnesium667@simplelogin.com.

To everyone who has contacted me about this post -- my apologies for my awful, inconsistent response rate here, with PMs, and with emails. I certainly understand the irony. A guy who wants to build community fails to check his inbox! All I can say is that major changes have been happening in my life, and I've had difficulty keeping up.

I also want to edit my original post. I'm no longer interested in moving from where I live now. I'm still interested in collaboration with communities, sharing ideas, and anyone who wants to consider forming community on my land. So, if you're still interested, feel free to reach out here or send me an email: capped_magnesium667@simplelogin.com.
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I'm adding my email address (actually an email alias for the open Internet) in case someone would like to contact me directly with email: capped_magnesium667@simplelogin.com.

While unrelated to the substance of this thread, if you don't know about email aliases but want to cut back on spam in your inbox, you may wish to check out https://typewire.com/blog/read/2025-08-01-the-ultimate-guide-to-an-email-alias-service . I don't endorse or recommend any products or services offered on this site and I'm not paid to promote the site, but the particular article does have helpful information in my opinion.

AG
4 months ago

Bridget Evab wrote:My partner and I might be interested in joining. We are looking at relocating to MI. It seems we have a lot  of ideals in common. Our goal is to buy land, so maybe we could be neighbors or we could help you on your land in exchange for a stepping stone type opportunity for us. We have a lot of important permie, homesteading, farming, construction, and community forming skills. We have two kids under 5, a couple horses, poultry, goats and sheep, and a ton of tools and equiptment.

Let me know



Hey Bridget, I've sent you a PM! Thank you for reaching out!
4 months ago

Les Frijo wrote:Man, Welcome and I'm rooting for ya!



Thanks, Les! I love how supportive the permie community is here!
4 months ago

Vicky Rleon wrote:I think šŸ˜…I’m interested. Same here. Very spiritual. Tons of talents. Very articulate and interesting. Haha! I’m new to gardening though, but, I’m studying for my PDC. It could be an amazing practice for my designs. 🤪 Is Michigan colder than SD?



Hey Vicky! Thanks for reaching out! I've sent you a PM.
4 months ago
Hello! I'm newish to permies.com but I decided to finally write that post about community.

I own a homestead on many mostly wooded, remote acres of land in northern Michigan. I’ve been incrementally converting this land into a permaculture system, but the going is slow by myself. While I’ve had success in planting gardens, hugelkultur, and off-grid living, I’d like to dramatically increase the rate of progress toward a community-centric, permaculture, and off-grid lifestyle.

In particular, I have the following goals:
1. Cultivate food forests, gardens, and livestock to be at least 50% food self-sufficient with the other half coming from local permaculture/gardening communities.
2. Have a multi-generational intentional community on/around my land supporting a few to several families.
3. Engage a community in the skilled arts and sciences, forming a notable component of a parallel economy, to contribute goods and services to the broader community.
4. Build a community that enlightens, edifies, and reforms the broader cultures and socio-economic structures in which it exists.

To begin to accomplish these goals, I can see the following scenarios:
1. I collaborate with nearby people/communities to share labor, resources, and skills, though, in this case only, no one else would actually live on my land.
2. People move to my homestead and we collaborate together to share labor, resources, and skills.
3. I sell my homestead and move somewhere else where a group of people already has land and homesteads and shares labor, resources, and skills.
I would consider any of these possibilities or a different possibility if in the same spirit as those above.

What I’m looking for:
--Other northern Michigan individuals/homesteads/communities that are willing to trade labor, resources, and skills with me;
OR,
--Individuals (one or at most two to start; more later) who want to move to my homestead (either use a spare room or bring a tent, yurt, or camper trailer) for a little while or longer term and collaborate with me to accomplish the goals listed above;
OR,
--Other conscious communities/homesteads anywhere in the US that are aligned with those goals and are seeking other members;
OR,
--Ambassadors for a shared vision of community, who are willing to connect me with other like-minded individuals and/or promote the vision to others to bring them aboard.

Information about me to help you determine if you’d like to contact me:
--I’m a single 34-year-old man.
--I have full-time, remote work and am financially independent.
--I live off grid and am working to improve my methods every day.
--I’m a follower of Jesus. Some would label me as ā€œspiritualā€ while others would use the label ā€œreligious.ā€ Whatever I’m labeled, my faith is important to me.
--I have a variety of skills including gardening, engineering, carpentry, plumbing, electrical, and software development. I’d be happy to discuss my accomplishments and skill sets further for those interested in them.
--I’d love to learn more about sustainable micro-manufacturing with metals, semiconductors, and plastics. I’d also love to learn more about homeopathy and medicine.
--I love to read most genres of books and have an extensive library.
--I love to have deep conversations.
--I drink a ton of tea or coffee!
--While I certainly have had my failures, I work to create a wholesome environment for myself and friends.
--I’ve tended to be a loner but I’ve realized that I’d really love to have a tight-knit community. It’s been a journey in which I’ve had to re-evaluate my expectations, identify my own fears, and learn how to change. It’s not been an easy road but I’m glad that I’m on it.
--It’s so easy to react from fear or anger. I’ve certainly done this. Intentionally acting from love and a balanced mind is my highest priority, not reacting from fear or anger.
--I have many years of education and work in science and engineering fields, though I tend to be skeptical of the pronouncements of experts. I’ve learned to carefully review expert advice before following it.
--Someday (hopefully somewhat sooner rather than later), I hope to find a wife and have children, but I realize that building strong community is an important component of any relationship but especially romantic ones. So building community is my primary goal and, as a secondary goal, I’d like for a romantic relationship to develop organically from community, if possible.
--I’m deeply concerned about the holistic state of our world. I believe that a better world must be built one community at a time, starting in one backyard at a time, where our communities model what we want to see in the world around us. I believe that communities should be reflections of ourselves, celebrating where we are victorious and challenging us to improve where we are weak and to change where we are wrong. We must take responsibility ourselves and not outsource it; set positive examples of abundance, self-ownership, peace, respect, and enlightenment; and be the light on the hill in a dark, desperate, and weary land.
--I’m a proponent of holistic education for all ages, recognizing that person’s unique strengths and weaknesses and edifying through classical and hands-on curricula and activities.
--I’m an advocate for the responsible usage of technology—especially digital technology—to promote freedom and enhance sustainability. I search for ways that technology may be used as a tool to promote privacy, freedom, health, cognitive abilities, and sustainable lifestyles and attempt to structure my life toward those ends.
--I’m a proponent of decentralization as a means of anti-fragility and of spontaneous order formed from voluntary interactions in communities of all scales. Community interactions at heterogeneous scales tend to form strong communities, in my opinion.

Do any of my goals, characteristics, philosophies, or scenarios resonate with you? Do I seem like someone who possibly could add value to your life journey? If so, then great! Please send me a purple moosage or respond to this post. I’d love to get to know you!

Thanks for reading,
AG
4 months ago