I think the key distinction is that the gravel inside the room isn’t necessarily there to collect water coming sideways from the perimeter trench. It’s mainly providing a capillary break and a drainage layer beneath the floor.
If the soil underneath is damp, moisture can move upward through the soil by capillary action. A layer of clean, washed gravel with minimal fines interrupts that movement because the larger voids don’t pull water upward as readily. That’s why the “washed” part matters.
I’d be more concerned about getting the overall floor assembly right than trying to make the perimeter gravel somehow drain the entire room. Good site drainage, compacted/native soil, clean coarse gravel, and a properly installed vapor barrier each serve different purposes.
For Hokkaido, I’d also think carefully about frost and seasonal moisture. If Yoshida-san knows the local soil and has built similar foundations there successfully, his experience is worth considering, but I’d want to understand exactly what the vapor barrier is intended to protect against and where it sits in the floor assembly.
And yes, I’d avoid putting carpet directly over a potentially moisture-prone floor. A floor finish that can tolerate some seasonal moisture is a safer choice.