Hi other Jen!
A big difference will be whether you are starting them inside. For plants like tomatoes or eggplants, many start inside under
lights (or near a very bright window) and will pot them up. Then move them outside slowly during the day to start hardening them off (to UV light mostly) close to last frost - this would be done watching the forecast, and moving them inside or under cover at night. You are looking for overnight temperatures around 10C/50F consistently before you plant them in the ground. IF a frost happened, you could do a double fleece/remay cover - some do fleece +
cardboard. I haven't run into that yet myself though! I'm just north of you, I start early coldset tomatoes, super hot peppers (slow growers), etc in Feb on a heatmat (they want warm soil) and pot them up until I move them out sometime in April. You can start them later though, they do catch up - however too late and you won't get tomatoes in some types or you'll be waiting until season end. There is a lot of variability in what people do, and it's fun to experiment! One big one though is your light source (window vs artificial) - the plants expect a certain number of hours of light per day, and unless you're controlling that manually starting them earlier won't benefit the plants.
Another thing to note is many seed types are best to start in pots, not the ground. Tomatoes is one example.
Good luck!