If you want a job that isn’t guaranteed to be replaced by AI (might eventually, but not for a while) become an electrician or plumber or other blue collar you like and is needed where you want to live.
AI is coming for most of the white collar jobs, or changing them so rapidly that current college is less than worthless.
I also used to be an engineer. When I got laid off, I decided to get off the merry go round. I didn’t want to move to a big city with a family and there was a fundamental shift coming in technology so I didn’t want to retrain. I paid everything off and took a blue collar construction job. Money is tight, but life is so much better.