Jack Sato wrote:That sounds like a dream tbh, My fiancee and I have been searching for a place, yet we have hit some financial issues ourselves.
if luck turns around for us I will have to reach out again!
S Tonin wrote:I don't know if it's still there, but in the early oughts I visited a place somewhere in upstate NY (right along the Hudson, you could see the lights of NYC from the hill the place sat on, I think it was close to the Tappan Zee Bridge) that was a mixed-age intentional community whose central focus was eldercare. Unfortunately I don't remember a lot of details or even the name of the place (I met a guy on the internet and went to meet him; I was only there 3 days/ 2 nights), and Google isn't helping me either. I think it was super expensive and catered mostly to rich Manhattanites, but the place itself was a working farm that grew most of the food for the community. They were just getting back to using horsepower for some tasks, like pulling the wagon that held all the tomato plants going in the field. It was really cool to participate in planting, 20-30 people of mixed ages all working together to get the tomatoes in the field. They did group meals, too, and I remember dinner being compulsory for everyone except the staff on kitchen/ dining room duty that day.
I'm pretty sure the place had been established in the 70s, at least as a nursing home, though it may have been an intentional community for longer. It was Theosophist, and they were kind of strict about what the community members were allowed to do. The atmosphere was a little too restrictive and too cult-like for me (and I'm no wild child or anything, it just wasn't my scene), but I really loved the idea of it. Everyone there seemed pretty content, and not like Manson-family blissed-out--truly satisfied with their existence in that place and time. I think they had like 150 elderly residents, I don't know how many staff. They did have some kids there, though not many, and I think there was a Montessori school nearby or they homeschooled the kids in that manner. I remember the staff stayed in houses on the property (the one I stayed in was a 19th century farmhouse, I think 4 or 5 people lived there) and the elderly residents were in different buildings, so it wasn't a truly integrated community.
I know all that isn't much help, but I just wanted to add my (very limited) experience. If your googling is better than mine, maybe you can find more info on the place (if it still exists). Seems like it would be a cool place to live/ work for a while to gain experience.
Edit: I was wrong about some of the details (hey, it was almost 20 years ago), but I found the place-- The Fellowship Community in Chestnut Hill, NY.