Hi
We have solved using a rocket stove to heat a hot tub and our system is tested over a year with zero issues. Check out my threads.
There is a lot of misinformation out there, with people very sure that it is very dangerous to heat water with a rocket stove. The whole flash to steam/ 'boom squish' thing is way overstated. We put water in the direct flame path of the rocket at 1100F and see absolutely no problems. We have a safety valve fitted just in case, but it has never triggered in 1 year of using the heater at full rocket burn temperature. Also, the idea that the rocket becomes smoky due to the cold water is also untrue. We maintain almost nil smoke emission even after starting the burn and heating water that is very cold.
Of course, if you fill a container with water and seal it and put it on a heat source you will make a bomb and possibly cause serious injury. But that will be true whatever your heat source (rocket or otherwise) and is not a specific concern of rocket stoves.
We engineer our water heating tank to be extremely safe with the use of very large bore pipes (almost impossible to block unwittingly) and the use of a pressure safety valve (probably overkill, but best to be safe).
It would be great to have feedback from the permies community, but it seems that for some reason people aren't interested in my developments, perhaps because I am an outsider to the 'permies scene'.
Thanks for all feedback in advance
Alex