Susan Mené

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I'm a 60 year old adventurous, curious, retired nurse who lives on Long Island, NY. Married to a type A (husband) and I'm a type B. I have a grown daughter and son; we are a close family.
I live my permaculture dream on a suburban shy acre on a glacial moraine, my soil is glacial till.   It's half wooded (evolving food forest) and half for the house, garden and dog. I make my own jam and eat the weeds, My vegetables grow in garden beds, pots, nooks and corners, and vertical planters. Permaculture, hiking, and gardening are my current passions.
I don't use alcohol or drugs because I can't handle them. Have one for me!
I've zip-lined and rock-climbed in Alaska, jumped off the 108th floor of a building in Las Vegas and I'm still terrified of heights. I've hiked glaciers and on Mt. Etna, and lot of trails. 15 years of martial arts (mid-life) until I fell on my head. Now I need a new knee and it was all totally worth it.
Everything considered, being at home with family, friends, dog and garden is the best.
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Robert Ray wrote:They gave me my appointment date today, Sept 14th. I am so ready, probably no skiing this year but it looks like the forecast isn't projecting much snow anyway.



      That's good news! I know what you mean about being so ready; my world is very small right now.  And, yes, it seems like this winter will be a good one to "rebuild" for next year's skiing.  Do you know if you can recover at home with outpatient physical therapy or if you will be going to rehab afterwards?  So many factors affect that, including proximity of PT.  
       
Thank you all.  
    I am so grateful for all the information and insight.  It's really helpful and comforting.
I have a family and personal history of addiction so I have been substance-free for decades.  That being said, pain control is essential.  My husband and grown children (who weren't even around when I gave up everything) and friends will be gatekeepers if required, but none of us are anticipating that.  I've taken a narcotic pain reliever once while in the hospital and all it did was knock me out for 6 hours, no "high" or anything.  
    Off to actually go to the movies.  I never go, but this one is important to me.  😁😂
     

     

Tereza Okava wrote:It will all be in the rear view mirror before you know it!!! Courage, my friend!

(i can still remember the two months before getting the tumor on my hand taken out and the whole mess reconstructed [second opinion surgeon said 'you just need to accept your hand won't work the way it used to' while the actual surgeon was the oncologist telling me I was nuts to not get the surgery done yesterday, but there were reasons I had to wait], it was a very rough couple weeks. I found myself a mantra and an image to use as my phone lock screen, and put it everywhere else I might see it: very simply: "What if it all works out?" And every time I thought I was too scared or losing my shit, I would take a breath and remind myself "What if it all works out?" And go figure, it all worked out. You sound like a tough cookie and might not need this sort of constant reminder, but if you do, I recommend it highly. You got this!)



Oh we all have our moments!  I'm a tough cookie, but I'm not afraid to drop my sword and cry for a while if need be.  I mostly think about how this is new territory for me: what will the pain be like? I had a hysterectomy (open, not laparoscope) and I've had worse pain from doing sit-ups.  On the other hand, if I bump my toe/foot, you'll probably hear me screaming down south of Capricorn where you are, hahaha!  Limited mobility will be interesting and a challenge.  What comforts me is that so many people have gone through this before, and I'll be able to coach someone else through it, like people are helping me.
Princess Axe is waiting to play!
2 days ago
    Two weeks.  My walker showed up on my porch yesterday.  Wishing it was a cane, will ask about it, but I am trying to view this whole process matter-of-factly.  
3 days ago

Tereza Okava wrote:Susan, if you have a plethora of fresh tomatoes, may I suggest something I had forgotten about but started making again recently?
there are some 'vegan tomato tuna' recipes going around. a spicy one here https://www.okonomikitchen.com/spicy-tomato-tuna/
there was one i saw the other day from a japanese cook but it was on instagram and that's like a black hole, i'll never find it again... but it was basically slice/chop the tomatoes, salt them to drain out liquid, add a bit of ginger, it was delightful.
Both of these we have been treating like raw tuna, using it to top nigiri, rolling it up with scallions in sushi, putting it in poke bowls, etc.

There is also a FABULOUS recipe out there for tomato-basil-potsticker salad. (gift link here should work: https://cooking.nytimes.com/recipes/1024075-dumpling-tomato-salad-with-chile-crisp-vinaigrette?unlocked_article_code=1.7FA.qCJT.bB-Gz6RwxlZi&smid=share-url
I have made this plenty of times and it is always an absolute home run. I usually have some dumplings in the freezer but I could see this working with anything else - pasta, gnocchi, spatzle, pierogies, some chopped up tofu, you name it.



    I'm so excited to try these! The recipes look AMAZING, and you posted them right when I was in the sick-and-tired-of-every-recipe I know mode (Embarrassing: it is such an unbelievable luxury to have such ample amounts of food that I can feel that way that it reminds me to give, give, give).
    Need a few ingredients for the vegan tomato tuna; my husband will love that.  Many thanks!
5 days ago

C Wilt wrote:I went to Alaska a couple years ago and bought a sourdough cookbook when I was there. There is a sourdough gingerbread recipe in it. I actually tried it last week and it was pretty good. I’m not really good at baking but I think someone with a little talent could make something really tasty with it. I have a picture of the recipe since I sent it to my friend but I don’t know how to put it here.



Hi! Welcome to permies!  Are you posting from your phone or computer? I'd be happy to try help if you're interested.  Either way, keep coming around, it's fun and helpful here, and we're NICE!
5 days ago
    I love the fresh-from-the-garden eats during peak harvest.
    Sun dried tomatoes: some were ground up dry and added to some cream cheese, that is being used as the base for a creamy pasta sauce with diced fresh tomato and basil, and also used as a simple spread.
     I made my stuffed jalapenos and topped them with rehydrated sundried tomato and they were amazing.
As suggested, I kept the fresh tomatoes out of the cream cheese. Before I posted, that was 100% where I was going to put them.  I diced them and added most to my egg roll filling, some to scrambled eggs, and froze some for later.  
     Despite all the rain (always a gift of life) and fighting disease, they're ripening so fast that each day I have a bundle of "must get consumed or processed today.  Excess food is not a problem; lack of food is. Stepping up my sharing game.
1 week ago

Robert Ray wrote:I had one knee done last Oct. I am getting the pre-scans For the other knee done this Friday. Mad at myself for not doing it sooner. My experience was no pain the first three days and when the surgery anesthesia wore off  the pain came on. Bearable but definitely noticeable. The physical therapy after a month allowed me to make a full rotation on a recumbent bicycle and after that for me it was smooth sailing. I actually worked for a few hours starting the second day after surgery. There were two incisions that were made for the robotic apparatus that made the bone cuts exact and I think those hurt sometimes more than the knee itself. Elevate and ice, I was given a ice machine when discharged, get rid of area rugs to prevent catching on them. I was able to discard my handicapped placard after 6 weeks. Do not stop moving, being static is not a good idea. I was fascinated by the surgical glue instead of staples or stitches. I have used super glue on cuts before but was impressed on how well it worked on a large incision.



Thanks for sharing your experience.  This fits almost exactly what recovery will look like!  Good luck with your next one!
1 week ago

Rebecca Wedgewood wrote:My step mum had her knee replaced a few years ago and her hip 3 weeks ago. For the hip they have her exercises to do before the surgery which really seems to have made the past surgery physio easier.

Don’t forget arms /neck /shoulders too as crutches really can cause stress and pain in these.

Best of luck



Rebecca, this is so true, thank you. I need to be mindful of the other body parts that will be doing some extra work while my knee heals!
1 week ago

John F Dean wrote:Everything Tereza and Timothy just said.   ALSO, your doctor may advise that you take some over the counter medication for pain. …Such as Tylenol or aspirin .  It is common for folks to think that is silly when they are on four major pain killers. Two things to remember …meds have multiple functions, and there is such as thing as break through pain.  The human body can be more than a little strange. Sometimes an OTC med will knock out pain that one of the more serious pain meds don’t seem to be handling. I have seen too many people in agony because they refused to take the OTC med.



Thank you, John.  I never underestimate the power of the "multiple pathway" method of treating pain.  The Tylenol (acetominophen)/motrin (ibuprofen) can be amazingly effective, especially with some ice thrown in!
1 week ago