The programming that the media gives young people is about infidelity in marriage being a big adventure, that's a part of being "free" and successful and desirable. It seems to indicate its ok to have intimacy before marriage or before you even get to know if you are compatible with another. Easy access to porn for immediate satisfaction has numbed the senses like a drug causing a man to become addictive to more and no longer able to function when with a real woman.
Family as we know it today has broken apart, more children come from divorced families. Family becoming weak and frail by breaking up the home life and family structure. By not having the support of a family, the population is not emotionally supported to withstand the harsh realities of society. By children not being adequately parented and strengthened spiritually, each new generation lack inner fortitude, which can more easily be manipulated by society.
To understand more about dating I suggest Dr. John Gray. He has assisted me tremendously to understand men and women....and that both have different needs in a relationship. Once you understand what that is you can have a happy relationship. Dr. Gray explains healthy hormones levels and how important they are in a relationship.
Relationship Counsellor Dr. John Gray explains what is going on in relationships.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuM7ZS7nodk