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Title: 37M Caribbean Roots – Seeking Woman 30‑45 for Off‑Grid Coastal Jungle Homestead w/ Spring + O

 
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Title: 37M Caribbean Roots – Seeking Woman 30‑45 for Off‑Grid Coastal Jungle Homestead w/ Spring + Ocean
Hello beautiful Permies family
I’m a 37‑year‑old island boy at heart – 186 cm, long dreadlocks, born on a tiny Dutch Antilles rock where I ran barefoot between fruit trees and the Caribbean sea. I spent my teens and 20s in the Netherlands and the corporate world… but my soul never left the tropics. Now I’m finally coming home – for good – and I’d love to find my partner to build this paradise together.
A little about me
• Completely drug‑free except the occasional responsible joint under the stars.
• Fully non‑religious – guided only by nature and the magic of the universe.
Hands‑on skills I bring
• Construction & carpentry – houses, cabins, furniture, anything with wood and love.
• Permaculture design, food forests, soil building.
• Water systems: rainwater, greywater, swales, hugelkultur.
• Full off‑grid solar PV + batteries + small wind.
• Animal husbandry: chickens, ducks, goats, pigs, cows, donkeys – they’re family.
• DIY plumbing, electrical, troubleshooting – I fix what breaks.
Food Philosophy & Diet – please read carefully (this is non‑negotiable)
• Strictly lacto‑ovo‑vegetarian + 100 % wild‑type / non‑hybrid / non‑GMO only.
• We will grow and eat:
• Only wild‑type (non‑domesticated, non‑hybrid, non‑GMO) plant seeds, nuts, fruits, leaves, roots, mushrooms.
• Unfertilised eggs from our happy birds.
• Dairy (milk, cheese, yogurt) from our goats/cows.
• Honey from our bees.
• Absolutely NO flesh of any kind (no meat, no fish, no slaughter – ever).
• Animals are lifelong companions and helpers only – kept for eggs, milk, manure, and labor.
• This is a pure, gentle, abundant wild‑type food‑forest life.
Wildlife Vision –
• From day one the permaculture system will be designed to attract and support as much native wildlife as possible
• No traps, no poisons, no persecution – ever. A true sanctuary.
Non‑negotiable land requirements (worth every penny)
• Crystal‑clear year‑round fresh water (spring/river/waterfall you can drink untreated).
• Direct ocean/sea access (own beach or < 5 min walk).
• Jungle‑coastal setting, titled land, under $5,000/acre.
• Budget ≈ $23–30k total – very realistic in Central America, northern South America, or SE Asia.
Timeline – exciting times ahead
• 2026 – scout & purchase land.
• 2027 – build infrastructure, plant, welcome animals.
• Late 2027 / early 2028 – relocate and live fully off‑grid forever.
Who I’m hoping to meet (30‑45)
A warm, open‑hearted woman who:
• Is done with the matrix and ready to co‑create paradise.
• Is non‑religious, values personal freedom and gentle child‑rearing.
• Loves (or wants to learn) permaculture, animals, off‑grid living.
• Is 100 % on board with the strict wild‑type lacto‑ovo‑vegetarian diet.
• Is excited to live surrounded by thriving tropical wildlife in total harmony.
• Is comfortable with hard physical work and teamwork.
• Enjoys nature, gaming nights, movie marathons, deep talks, philosophy, and adventures.

About me socially
I’m quiet in big groups but light up one‑on‑one. My perfect life is sharing every moment – the work, the laughter, the adventures – with my partner, the ocean breeze, and maybe two or three close friends around a fire.
A truth from the heart
I’m far from flawless—no one ever is—but I bring a sincere, expansive heart, limitless energy, authentic kindness, steady patience, and a firm dedication to growing together. I hope we can lean on each other during the inevitable tough moments and later reminisce, laughing beneath the leafy canopy of our food forest while curious monkeys swing overhead.
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Born 20 Dec 1988 – Sagittarius / Earth Dragon – restless builder who lives for freedom and transformation.
If any of this makes your heart whisper “yes… this feels like home,” please drop me a PM – even a simple “hi” is perfect. And I'll reply.
Thank you for reading all the way here. Maybe, just maybe, you’re the woman I’ve been dreaming of building this life with.


Thank you for reading. Looking forward to possibly building this sanctuary together.
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