posted 3 hours ago
Hi
My nicname is Aki...
I am presently temporarily living outside a small town in the northern Patagonia,
surrounded for hectres, by forested mountains and river streams,
within a warm micro-climate.
I am open to befriending a woman into my life
who is deeply kindred in who she is for herself,
how she lives her life
and whats most important to her,
including, being immersed within her aspirations, creating and dreams into living loving reality!
Being,
naturally in alignment
with who I am for myself,
how I consciously chose to live my life,
and whats most important to me,
living my aspirations and actualizing my dreams into living loving reality!
Including, discovering a piece of land where we chose to co-design and create our home and life together within nature!
A woman who mutual respect is absolutely essential!!!
A woman who is balanced within what others call the feminine and masculine, as I am!
Who needs to be in a relationship thats foundation is of being the best of friends,
also passionate fulfilling lovers and incredibly complimentary companions in life!
Focused and successful responsible upon both owning our own!
Excellent in "constructive", open and honest communications!
A non smoker, A non drinker. Non drug oriented individual!
A woman who is not into government nor religion! .
Nor, other egotistical, arrogant, psychopathic, self proclaimed authorities / leaders
About me:
I was born in the Netherlands ,
I grew up on 3 different continents.
Traveled the last 28 + years living within different countries
exploring were I wish to settle into long term.
Clear on the qualities necessary.
Immersing myself into authentically getting to know in-depth
the heart minds and spirits of the wilderness,
and specific kindred areas of the culture of:
Thailand (Pai) - A very real and long time home for me.
The favorite place I have ever lived.
I thrived in every aspect of my life!!!
And, to a much lesser extent Chiang Mai.
Tasmania / Australia (Hobart) - I absolutely loved it!
I would of stayed has I been able to get residency.
British Columbia (Slocan Valley / Nelson).
Nepal (Pokhara).
Great Britain (Brighton and London).
to old school Boulder, Colorado - which was a real and long time home for me, Mount Shasta-briefly, Olympia Washington ( years ago ).
I am definitely uniquely my own person.
I was supported to be by my family.
Also, growing up in a home and school Montessori environment.
Never prostituting myself to be a part of the self delusional important cultural, institutional, societal...nor other supposed norms - which are in inherently dysfunctional !
Norms are only a seriously limited point of view / experience
and those who are part of a self proclaimed given norm are at times, grossly arrogant of their ignorance.
I do not identify with any country, culture, groups, etc.
I do not find my self worth based upon others.
Being true to what is right for oneself is what is absolutely essential !
I have been immersed since earliest childhood
both personally and later professionally in:
Permaculture -
including,
Designing and constructing various eco homes, food forests and more.
Organics -
including,
Growing up in my dads, grandmothers and great grandmothers organic gardens,
My own successful, ethnobotanically diverse, edibles and medicinals business on 5 hectres,
Selling plants, produce, seeds and products (tintues, salves, bulk medicinal herbs, etc).
At another time,
A retail and wholesale manager of a large scale organics produce department.
And, at another time, large scale Medicinal herbal and health care department.
I have lived at times, primarily off the grid / self sufficient.
Ethnobotany -
Independent research and studies.
Veganism-
For the majority of my life.
I actively support the ALF.
A Naturopath -
Working sometimes full time , others part time and still others not at all and focused upon other adventures.
Medicinal herbalist.
Massage therapist.
Psychologist.
NLP / Hypnotherapy.
Also, teaching some of these and other therapies I am trained within such as meditation and chi gong.
Bush craft / survival skills,,,, ever since I could meander out on my own two feet
and learn wild plants, shelter building, how to felt, fire making, water purification, etc.
And, in the past more than for the past years,
a multi instrumentalist.
I love creating / composing y experimenting with all kinds of non commercial music
which in the past releasing cds, files, cassettes (remember what those were?).
Besides performing, on fun occasions, creating for film, theatre, dance, storytelling.....,
And, a life time of writing,,,
be it introspective, contemplative observations
equally also, biting humorous, social political commentary writing, storytelling and theatrics.
And when I have , wild life and domesticated animal friends rescue and rehabilitation.
Loving life passionately !