41WF, loves a laugh (or a cry), seeking gentleman with muscles and heart on fire

I’m 41, 5’10,” White, brown/brown, Scottish/French ancestry, fittish, don't much want to put a pic online. I live in a big city in the Midwest. I have a need for freedom and am looking for a closer relationship to my soul and nature. I  work in the mental health field. I would love to find someone to love, make a happy life, and make a deep commitment. I am in my forties, so having kids is not really practical for me. I'm at the end of my ability and it's not something I would rush into (clearly!). This is something that makes me sad, but I am hoping to meet someone who can accept this limitation and, like me, will strive for fulfillment, meaning, some kind of legacy and wholeness. I am looking for someone mature, who strives to deepen and challenge himself in life, and who strives to understand others. Maybe someone in the mental health field like me, or anyone who has a respect for the soul. I long to create a permanent connection to a place with a small house and a big garden.
You are welcome to reach out and say hey- my day to day personality is not this maudlin! Any ladies reading this sensing a kindred spirit and interested in making more platonic friendships please feel welcome to drop me a hello as well.

Hello.....

I am a man in my forties as well looking for about the same.  I too work in healthcare with a master's degree and have a very good idea what's going on in the world.  

I am currently in the process of building my future home in the Ozarks and looking for a lady to settle down with.  I aim to have a comfortable place to live where I can enjoy life and make a good living.

I have 16 acres with a pond and may build off grid with solar and wind due to my location being on the highest ridge for miles.  Its gonna be swell!!  

Any ladies out there looking for a good life send me a way to connect.

Hello I am a single male living on a mountain by Missoula mt. 6,2” tall at 220 pounds. Body shape and size matters little too me. Your health matters most. Are you trying to live a healthy lifestyle? I understand how difficult this can be and know that it takes an open connection with your body and it will tell you what is healthy for you. also having  tried to have empathy for all beings has helped to broaden my prospective outlook on life. I am very far from seeing any sort of big picture and have plenty of things still to work on with myself. Loving others has always been easy for me. I have a very open hart with what i call healthy boundaries to safeguard  it.
I am very open to moving to another country with a better human rights history or a US state. I have built a small farm on 20 acres of forested mountain top. I have a good skill set for homesteading and love to build with natural materials.
I don’t enjoy cities much and prefer to live with nature. Happy to share more about myself if interested.

Hi there!
I like your post. Do you have a pic?

Here's my profile: 🙂

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