I bought some bayberry seed last fall, and have had them stratifying in my fridge all winter. Just today I was checking through the seeds there and researching what conditions they need to germinate.
When you gather the seed you have to remove the wax from the seed or else they won't germinate. Moist stratify the seed just above freezing for a couple of months then bring them out and plant at room temperature. I didn't find out how to remove the wax but I imagine
hot water or alcohol would do the trick
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