35 m with own homestead in Minnesota

Hey you, my future soul mate, can you please let me know how you're doing? I'm ready to be totally there for you in this fucked up world.

I've already got our land, 5 acres here in Central Minnesota in a quiet climax forest of oaks and maples, with the garden and trees already growing. The home is beautiful, a cabin which has additions to make it convenient as can be to live and loaded with the finest art, books, vinyl records, and art supplies. No rent or mortgage to pay, just living as free as our utilities, taxes, car, and food demand. I only work 2 double shifts a week at a group home so I'm here 5 days straight doing fun stuff all the time.

For the past year, I've been going to the extreme in the garden and its finally growing. Hallelujah! Who knew that growing things required so much personal growth?! lol Man have I grown so much in the past years.
Lets organize it into the four elements: Earth / Materiality, Water / emotion, Air / thought, and Fire / Spirit.

Materially, I'm in the best shape of my life. Last year I ran a 6 minute mile and now I'm into calisthenics for my workout which is getting me so fit and happy. I look it too if I don't say so myself. Plus, the land here is starting to really shine with the love i've been pouring into it over the past 6 years. I've also got so many other treasures to share here... including the many stories  I love to tell from life and history.


Water / emotion: I just sailed through the most turbulent relational experience imaginable, losing my wife to an ai chatbot. It broke my heart again and again. Each time,  I had to digger deeper to find that love inside myself because it wasn't coming outside of me. And so, I grew enormously with a resilience I couldn't imagine I had. Plus, i was a super dad for my 5 year old who is about the brightest and nicest kid ever. She was my lighthouse in the storm. However, that storm is passing and I'm ready to love someone real for real now and make the most of our lives together.

Air / thought: My mind has never been clearer. I just hit 35 and I feel like everything is coming into focus. I can tackle anything I set my mind to. Last year, I built a batch box rocket stove that really kicks ass. Even though I grew a complete video game goon with no skills at all, I've gotten to the point where I can fix household appliances. I've already written a book on the tarot (where i turn it into a game you can play with your hands!) that shows how deep my thoughts really are on psychology and philosophy  as wellhttps://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/tn4r0b5ziy4mgp1snzoyt/arcane-arcade-2026-update.pdf . also, i'm homeschooling my 5 year old and have already taught her how to read at a 3rd grade level. She finishes whole chapter books daily! I am a really great teacher for kids and adults alike in almost any subject i'm interested in which is like all of them.

Fire / Spirit: This is where I am rebuilding the passion I once had for life which has taken a real hit. But my potential is amazing. I have a vision: a land covered in perennial food and flower plants with art scupltures throughout. Children playing about with animals, harvesting and celebrating nature, inspiring our community members to get into the rhythms of the earth as well. Stress dropping away as self-sufficiency and our love grows. But there is so much more I am sure, for I want to share your vision as well, and be the wind beneath your wings. Together we could rise so high because we are grounded in the deepest force of all: Love.

I would best love a woman who is as curious as she is energetic. Definitely someone who wants to get their hands dirty but also can enjoy the finer things in life from good books and movies (video games I play occasionally too). Most importantly though, she should be true and loving to herself, or at least seriously committed to getting there. Starting a new relationship is a commitment and we are both going to have to grow a lot, either to make it work and/or to accept how beautiful life can really be. I'm excited to transform with you and become butterflies frolicking in the flower beds we plant and decorate.

Ultimately,  I'm just here to enjoy the ride. Will you get on it with me?

p.s. I'm an amazing dancer and can spin fire like crazy! Yah I like to celebrate life by living it up