35M US - looking for grounded woman to build a life and family with

Hi Ladies,

I'm 35M, 6'4", healthy and fit, clean natural lifestyle, no chemicals, no health issues.  I don't drink or smoke or use any medication or substances aside from very occasional wild mushrooms.

Looking for a capable, grounded partner who also values health and wants to raise a family in a natural way: barefoot outdoors eating real food and experiencing the real world, on land with community around.

I'm financially independent and ready to buy and/or build a place.  I'm open to living anywhere in the US where there's good water, trees, and community.  I have friends/family/community in rural spots in NY, NC, AK, and elsewhere.  If you have family or community somewhere you want to live I'm open to that possibility.  For now I have a sweet situation caretaking a large forest property here on the north coast of California where I have an off grid home base.  Heating with wood is a must.

Real food is important to me; I eat really good food and avoid industrial/processed food.  I've grown a big garden for a number of years, and also forage hundreds of pounds of diverse food every year.  I've helped with some regenerative cattle operations and would be up for doing that, or other kinds of animals, or otherwise subsist on foraging/garden etc.

I'm a jack of many trades and master of some - can build and fix anything, carpentry/plumbing/electric/solar/whatever, play and teach fiddle, do software engineering and real estate/law, and lots else.  I had a successful career in tech, but left that 9 years ago as I didn't like the direction tech was going.  Lately I've been doing more forest conservation work.  My real passions are the land and community and creating beauty.

I'm part of a men's group here where we support each other in practicing being who we want to be, and I will join or start something like that anywhere I live.  I'm good at listening and repairing after conflict.  I love who I am now and I want to continue to grow; I'm not defensive when I get feedback about how I could be better in relationship or in any way.

I grew up homeschooled with a big garden and animals and a lot of friends and family around, and want to create that for my future family.  It's totally doable and I'm ready.

If interested send me a PM or email pdoherty at fastmail.fm.  Tell me a little about the life you want to create.