ok to many names for me to keep up with but I will try to hit the topics everyone posted.
I am aware that low stress is best for me, along with low light and low noise.
I have my best days when I am home and can set my own, slow pace. No doctors appointment etc. Building a house is stressful. My parents built a house, the one I grew up in and I remember the energy around that, and I did not know the half of it back then.
Also the longer I am like I am the less chance of a full recovery I have. After 5 years your chances drop even more. I started going down hill May 2010, the dizziness and everything else got so bad I stopped working March 2011. I am at 2 years and still losing ground.
Great on someone you trust enough to live with and share land with and that she has 2 boys.
I have my partner, she is not a DIYer, but no one else I trust enough to do that with.
I have bartered with two people so far, one was a bust, traded a lawn mower for our grass to get cut for a summer, and the second one I am having trouble getting things done around the house which doing them was the barter for the use of our truck. Really getting annoyed there. So trusting someone to take care of things in exchange for something is well hard right now.
My family what is left of it is in Louisiana and Georgia. Both state are humid and humidity and I really do not get along any more.
I prefer cats and dogs to most people.
My doctor said keep my mind active, suggested cross word puzzles.. uck.. I did not like them when I was well, so I do research. I have researched all I can of my illness, big issue now seems to be a name for it, like I care what you call it, and so I started on organic gardening, rocket stoves and houses. Stuff I am interested in to keep my mind going. I am not even close to building at this point, sigh. But in a way it is good because I can do more research and talk to people and figure out what is best for me.
I currently live in the city in a tender box waiting for a match as I call them house, but she has done me well so far, the house that is.
I do better when everything I need is under one roof, I can pace myself and know what I need to do is close along with places to rest in between. I know a small space is easier to clean and some people love it. I am 6' tall and hate small spaces. I panic if I can not see a way out.
Also my fur babies need their room to run and play. My cats are indoor cats, dogs too. The dogs do go out into the back yard to potty and bark at the squirrel family that live in the maple in our back yard, something they really enjoy doing.
My fur kids really help me with my disability. They love me for who I am good or bad days. They even cuddle more and check on me more on my bad days. Of course now that the temperature is dropping I have my fur blanket back, when I am in my recliner. In fact Ms Blue is on my chest right now looking at me like why aren't you in bed mom.
I know you can not build a home or plan for everything but I would love to get close. And this forum has loads of information and experience and people willing to share it.