I have been single for most of 4 years, entirely focused on my homestead and work. I'll be 29 at the end of the month. My work has finally got me to a place where I can afford to focus a bit more elsewhere. More than anything else I can think of, I want to find Her.
I am looking for someone to really be a team, the real deal. I could write a novel about myself, so I will save that for us getting to know each other. One of my female teachers/mentors asked me to create a list of all the things I have admired and been attracted to in women down to fine details. I am not looking for community comments or feedback thanks. I am just looking for "Her", so if you know a woman like this, by all means, introduce us, otherwise I wish you well, good day. lol I am well aware that this would be one hell of a woman, and I know there are many such women out there. I believe the universe is creating them as I type.
I don't care where she is. In the U.S. would be ideal, I'd go anywhere for the right woman, and the right woman might go anywhere with me. I am currently managing farm projects in Washington and Texas. If I have to go to Africa or China to find her, I will.
Things I admire and appreciate in woman I have been attracted to.
Physically: The longer and fuller her hair seems to generally be more attractive. Semi-athletic/fit build. Can be bigger boned, if all the extra is in the thighs and proportioned well. Softball sized, firm breasts or very slightly smaller. Heart shaped faces often catch my eyes. Proper posture.
Well groomed and clean. Nice teeth. Her skin is soft and smooth.
Artistically: She is creative and crafty. She loves to sing and has a rich voice. She dances and her movements are seduction. She draws and imagines. She has a wild imagination. Her life itself is art. She likes to read and maybe write.
Her spirit: She is wild by nature with a calm soothing accentuation. She is gentle and kind, yet fiercely loyal and protective of those she loves. She is brave and strong, yet can be soft and fragile.
She is passionate and regal, but reserved, humble, unassuming, and earthly. (Comfortable with dirt on her bare feet)
Her eyes dance with curiosity and play or with a deep and somber, penetrating gaze, but always with unmistakable depth and intelligence. She lives fully alive with her whole heart in everything she does.
Habits & mannerisms: She is honest. She looks for and finds the best in everything and everyone. She radiates calm, harmonious energy in others and inspires them to thier best.
She balances frugality and conservation with style, quality, elegance, and celebration in life.
She is kind, compassionate, and forgiving, rather than harsh, rigid, and judging. She makes the best of tough situations with an uplifting spirit. She is nurturing and nourishing to her family and community. She experiences life more than thinking or judging it.
Values and preferences: She eats cleanly. She prefers the company of a close few to the attention of groups. She lives, with intention and meaning. To her, there is sacredness in all things. In all words, movement, and intentions, she conducts herself accordingly with grace and poise. She values love and comfort and happiness over material wealth. She prefers the country to the city and carefully cultivates her community and is uninterested in social media and technology. She has a detachment from the "modern world" and a yearning to build anew.
Intimately: her touch is gentle and full of concious tenderness. For those she is close to, she is full of teasing and play. Her laughter and vibration is like music.
She has a propensity towards devotion to one person.
Words that may describe her: Witch, enchantress, goddess, mother (unrealized)
For Her, I work each day to become my best in every way. I would build a home with and for her, and plant a utopian food forest around her filled with flowers and fruit, and a community would grow and flourish around us ......