Judith Browning wrote:Dangus, this is a great site, well moderated and very much worth hanging in there if the information here suits your needs. I'm guessing here...I think I kind of remember the post that might be the one of yours that disappeared and I think it might have had to do with what sounded a bit aggressive about humans vs cats? anyway the probation notice is standard but also includes a sentence or so about what to change pertaining to the particular post.
You are very welcome here and most any ideas that don't tread on the 'be nice' rule pass. Included under 'be nice' though is the idea that no one here is 'less than perfect' and should not be treated so....that leaves space and comfort for all sorts of new ideas and thoughts. Something like you were bringing up (possibly?) might have fit in the 'cider press' where we can hash out more controversial subjects, but you would first need to earn the privilege to post there through apples for good posts.
Thanks to all for the replies. I grew up reading the Fox Fire books and I used to do blacksmithing out of my dad's back yard until the city shut me down. I've always loved old timey crafts and DIY thinking. I do find this site to be an interesting resource and I do actually appreciate the "be nice" mentality even if I don't necessarily understand how its enforced in any clear way. Ironically, on the post you referred to, I was trying to make a point about how an unemotional response in a hypothetical sense could be a very negative thing toward humans, but was not actually advocating any negativity toward humans or cats in general. In fact, everyone in the discussion, even those who expressed dislike of cats were displaying a very good attitude toward them. So I chalk it up to differences in how I communicate, but it does reduce my interest in posting somewhat. I'm certainly not upset in any real sense about it. I just consider it confusing is all. I always try to be nice, but other people often seem to have very different notions of what is nice than I do.