Hi Su... I will definitely check you out! Our family blog about homesteading and living off-grid in a yurt is www.ouryurtifullife.com.
Ken- we are in the Ava area, about an hour south-east of Springfield.
Carla... Thank you for the helpful advice! We have done a lot of homesteading in the past... as we were part of a permaculture off-grid farm for several months in Maine and also had our own small homestead for a while. Since moving to MO, we know we won't be self sustainable right off, but we want to work towards that, and part of that is having a plan of action in place

We are definitely looking into raising mealworms and having a maggot bucket to help feed the chickens through the winter. As for the goats, I thing bartering may definitely be the way we need to go at first.
Reading about your childhood sounds a lot of what we have been doing so far. We don't have teenagers (a newborn and two toddlers though!) but we always work together as a family and we are enjoying our Yurtiful Adventure.
Thank you all for your helpful replies!