This was a very interesting thread to read, for sure. I do love the area, and I am familiar with the area Ted is in. Anytime we mention "desert" city folk automatically assume barren land with sand dunes. I live in the high desert at 7100' in New Mexico which looks nothing like a desert, LOL.
Secondly, I laughed at "no Burning Man refugees." Well, "Ted" my husband and I are both burners (since 2010 for me and 2016 for him,) and Burning Man taught us a LOT about how to prepare for our off-grid, gaining momentum towards a self-sufficient and radically self reliant lifestyle.
I absolutely understand the struggle to keep looking for suitable folks to join you, since we have been on that same struggle bus since 2022. We have had two wonderful WWOOFers and a farmsitter, but most of our experiences were less than ideal. I have had some very strange interactions with people, in fact - one strange real life interaction with a person from here on Permies! The amount of time and money I put into making visitors feel welcome, stopping what I have to do, taking valuable time out of my day to teach others how we live this way -- for the return, was absolutely not worth it. You're right, just to have people demand an hourly rate on top of the room and board is just...beyond me. I spent time as a WWOOFer 13 years ago and I was so grateful for my experiences, I would have NEVER acted the way some of these people have recently acted. Then again, I am also a burner and take radical reliance to heart. I was able to provide my own transportation and food and not make outrageous demands for three meals a day (like WWOOF requires.) Who in the hell has time to eat three times a day when we are working on our homesteads and REAL JOBS - let alone it has been proven that one-meal-a-day is optimal for health.
I get it that many of you wonder what Ted's plan is. I'm glad I don't have anybody hounding me for that, LOL. I get through each day, five minutes at a time, never knowing what kind of chaos or situation I will be presented with at any given moment. Animals unexpectedly get ill, hurt themselves, escape, disappear, and then during lambing season we have anywhere from 20-40 lambs born within one month. I am the one out with them 24/7 for those few weeks. Meanwhile, you want me to drop everything to make sure you have a warm vegan prepared meal? Good lord, I don't even feed myself during that time, and it's much easier for me to just do it myself, as much as it sucks, than to worry about hurting someone's feelings because I can't make their homemade biscuits.
I am very impressed that Ted is able to keep up with all those animals and gardens by himself. We are able to maintain our animals on our homestead, but we have only had one garden one year, and I just don't have the time or energy to do that again without help. I work 60-80 hours a week at a JOB 60 miles away that helps pay for all of this paradise. The downside is that I am rarely home to be able to enjoy it. I am only home for our weeks of lambing, most weekends, and then we take 3 weeks off to go to Burning Man in August-September.
Good luck out there, Ted. I know the struggle. We will wave at you on our way to our annual migration to Burning Man!