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Meli Mot wrote:I think it is totally possible to homestead solo and there are many on here doing it alone. I can't even imagine going back to "normal" life at this point, so if it means living solo for the long haul, that's ok with me! It would be nice to have someone/others, but maybe we are all too spread out around the world and value our solitude so highly, and that is just the way it is. I am super grateful for the blessings of this life!
John F Dean wrote:In the best of families, family dynamics can be difficult. The way that worked for me was to not play the game more than I have to. I live maybe 300 miles from my nearest relative out side of my household. The last time I called a family member was 20 years ago….the time before that was 20 years earlier. I am civil when they call me…which is rare. The last time I visited a family member was over 40 years ago.
Craig Lewis wrote:Give up your mind as to thinking you need someone. The neededness can or is an issue. It's like fear, other sense it.
It's best to set one self up. Seems most women are looking for independence. And that done seem to include a relationship in the normal ways.
Most are online looking, for they are jot out and about looking locally for life is busy and one is working.
So we go online seeking the world for someone that may match one's lifestyle, or close enough that one can have or start a relationship.
Do I need a partner. No
Would I like a partner, yes.
Should I have a partner. Only God knows and if it happens. Of great. If not, or great. I still will ne happy and content.
Sometimes the things we wish for, don't aways work out as we wish.
Keep working away. And be observant to those around us. And start with a coffee or a walk. And build up from there.
Maybe Love or Partner is local 🤔