It does seem like a lot of folks have the land and not the person - that’s been mentioned here a few times.
One thought: Choose a city or town that isn’t far away from you but one that you identify well with, where you’d go to date if you could be there full time. Using a normie dating app, post openly and honestly about what you’re looking for / what would make you happy / how you’d like to make another happy and what you have to offer - and where it is. As more people become collapse aware I bet that you’d find some potential partners who might make you the happiest person alive : )