I am a man with I suppose an idea. I want to see what people think, and if it’s possible. I’m a good man I feel, married for 8 together for 11 years. I have my flaws of course but I find myself at a crossroads in life and don’t know what to do. I bought land in Alaska and started building my dream for me and my family. I’m a good husband and father of one beautiful boy. This has been my dream to pass on to my son and share memories with my family. It has come to light that the love of my life has had an affair and is still very much attached emotionally to this other man. We are trying to work it out, but she can’t give him up as a friend. They are bonded by war brother and sister in arms. I was told nothing physical has happened once I found intimate pictures on her phone. Her year in war and fertility issues have changed both of us in many ways. She can’t show love or affection, however we love each other very much. I dream of moving on and stopping the pain and hurt. Moving to Alaska with someone new and living my best life. I will be 40 this year and want these next 10 years to be the best of my life. Before I’m to old to do all the things I want. I own my own business I work hard, I love my woman, my son, I provide they have everything they want and need. I dream of a simple life. I love nature, hunting, and fishing. I’m a simple man, I need love and emotional and physical affection, nature, loyalty, and trust. Is there woman even out there that this would appeal to? Could I make this work? Should I tough it out? What do people think? I feel I need perspective from people that aren’t emotionally invested. I’m new to this site but thought I would give it a shot. Any advice or input would be much appreciated. Thanks