dani marie

...to anyone who needs a boost.!! Much love from me to youss.!!♡

https://youtu.be/5dasTUwocVE?is=xS4OEcEn7VyXuwUj

Joshua Myrvaagnes wrote:Had to reply, same thing happened to me. She has many AI husbands. She says it’s our incompatible values (me land stewardship, her comfort) but I’m sure there’s a way to bridge those and have both. I don’t have an answer for you but happy to talk about it if you’d want. Just wishing you the best.

..ughhh....its such a sad feeling to think your in competition with your partners EGO.... BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY , THAT'S ALL AI REALLY IS, IS A REFLECTION OF SOMEONE'S OWN THOUGHTS , FEELINGS AND DESIRES REGURGITATED BACK TO THEM TO FEED THEIR EGO. in my opinion.... lol

i really do fear what the future is going to look like... The best reference I have is an old movie from the early nineties called "Surrogates "... if you haven't seen it , you really , really , really , really , really , really , really , really , reallyreeeeeeally need to lol... not just you , but anyone that might actually see this post , because it's sooo revealing and this is exactly how I see the future if people don't find a way to bring back that human connection.

They say, where there's a will there's a way.... and\nWhen you look back at the beginning of our relationship , there had to be something in common , or we would have never been with those people to begin with.??
Am I wrong.??
So what happens to that connection? Does it just disappear or are people just too feeble minded and stuck on their own ego and desires to try to think of the other person's feelings and emotions? Just as much as their own.?

I'm really sorry you had to experience that.And trust me when I say I can relate , and i'm sending positive vibes your way... ♡

Time is limitless.
It goes on forever.
But OUR forever has a limited time.....
Don't wait til its too late to say thank you.
Thank you, just because ♡

https://youtube.com/shorts/nPd2-t8UjTs?is=28GNYS0EUUxmAoSu

See Hes wrote:Just an add to my post where I blame the AI for the breaking relationship.
But actually AI/Games/Internet/social networks comes into our lifes, when things getting slowly out of control until the point of separation is reached.

It never comes all of a sudden into our life, it sneaks in behind us because the relationship has changed bit by bit and to blame is the painful silence because words that have not been spoken are now whole stories which are very very hard to sort out in a peaceful way.

A latent present and growing stubbornness building discussions which didn't get completed/eliminated by the roots.
This sparks arguments, arguments become fights and then silence is the result and the relationship ends behind a screen or even cheating due to lack of willingness mixed with dissappearing power to fix the relationship for the better.

ALL this above needs TWO people at the beginning fully on fire, but as this fire cools down, words that that needed to be openly spoken have never been spoken or it ended the way that  blames got exchanged like gunfire.

This moment the strategical design how AI/Games/Network makes money works out, and the partner gets more acceptance behind the screen, still thinking one day it will all be better again but actually it's a slow kill.

If you want to point with your indicator finger in one direction, you need first to ask why the other three fingers are pointing towards yourself.

There is only one chance.
Forget to think that a long 5 star holiday, a new house or any materialistic action will fix it. (You can't buy love with money)
The love and respect has been killed little by little so you need to be reversed it little by little, very very gentle.

Say honest that you need a neutral place to talk. Not in the house and not a Restaurant which acts as a public defense shield.
Discuss in a direct but sensible approach first how you want to speak to each other. (No topics!!! Just HOW and WHERE)

Instead of "We need to speak about our Problem" which creates already defense reactions on the other side get to the point.

"I would like to fix our both relationship but not in our house, can we buy some food, going outside building a shelter or rig up a tent and talking AND LAUGHING though the night?"

BUT avoid demands what has to be changed. Go back in time and look ahead. What wishes are includingh the strongest desire for both?

I know it will always slide off into the "You did..."  "You changed"  "you were different in the past."  arguments
And this needs an immediate "all stop" and a LAUGHING with jokingly saying someting like "sorry we slipped again into an argument."
 
No blame but gently finding the root cause and the root cause and not the partner is the enemy that needs to be fought..

This is a long and sensible progress but because the problem didn't come all of a sudden it will not be sorted to the better in all of a sudden.

Suggestion:

Go TOGETHER to a hardwarestore an buy nothing else than 2 meters ruler or tape measure and after every conversation where both can confirm that at least a tiny little progress has been made (even it was only a nice BBQ at the camp fire) you both have to decide together, if you cut one centimeter off which gets stored in a jar or any visible container.
Important is to make it a proud step for both. One opens the Glass and one drops the cut piece in.

You both need to love this container like a stamp collection worth millions and every centimeter added will lighten one little flame more in both of your hearts because this archivement has been made by using teamwork and not agression.
This Glass NEEDS to be with you the rest of you life BUT can only be used once when the 2 meters are in it.

If things slide off again TALK but NOT REPEAT adding new cuttings, because in this moment the glass became a weapon of choice and the magic of it is killed like you would scribble all over a Bible with a cheap ballpoint pen.

I hope my German mind set could bring it into imaginable English wordings otherwise read it again and again untill you get it how See is ticking ;-D

See Hes wrote:Just an add to my post where I blame the AI for the breaking relationship.
But actually AI/Games/Internet/social networks comes into our lifes, when things getting slowly out of control until the point of separation is reached.

It never comes all of a sudden into our life, it sneaks in behind us because the relationship has changed bit by bit and to blame is the painful silence because words that have not been spoken are now whole stories which are very very hard to sort out in a peaceful way.

A latent present and growing stubbornness building discussions which didn't get completed/eliminated by the roots.
This sparks arguments, arguments become fights and then silence is the result and the relationship ends behind a screen or even cheating due to lack of willingness mixed with dissappearing power to fix the relationship for the better.

ALL this above needs TWO people at the beginning fully on fire, but as this fire cools down, words that that needed to be openly spoken have never been spoken or it ended the way that  blames got exchanged like gunfire.

This moment the strategical design how AI/Games/Network makes money works out, and the partner gets more acceptance behind the screen, still thinking one day it will all be better again but actually it's a slow kill.

If you want to point with your indicator finger in one direction, you need first to ask why the other three fingers are pointing towards yourself.

There is only one chance.
Forget to think that a long 5 star holiday, a new house or any materialistic action will fix it. (You can't buy love with money)
The love and respect has been killed little by little so you need to be reversed it little by little, very very gentle.

Say honest that you need a neutral place to talk. Not in the house and not a Restaurant which acts as a public defense shield.
Discuss in a direct but sensible approach first how you want to speak to each other. (No topics!!! Just HOW and WHERE)

Instead of "We need to speak about our Problem" which creates already defense reactions on the other side get to the point.

"I would like to fix our both relationship but not in our house, can we buy some food, going outside building a shelter or rig up a tent and talking AND LAUGHING though the night?"

BUT avoid demands what has to be changed. Go back in time and look ahead. What wishes are includingh the strongest desire for both?

I know it will always slide off into the "You did..."  "You changed"  "you were different in the past."  arguments
And this needs an immediate "all stop" and a LAUGHING with jokingly saying someting like "sorry we slipped again into an argument."
 
No blame but gently finding the root cause and the root cause and not the partner is the enemy that needs to be fought..

This is a long and sensible progress but because the problem didn't come all of a sudden it will not be sorted to the better in all of a sudden.

Suggestion:

Go TOGETHER to a hardwarestore an buy nothing else than 2 meters ruler or tape measure and after every conversation where both can confirm that at least a tiny little progress has been made (even it was only a nice BBQ at the camp fire) you both have to decide together, if you cut one centimeter off which gets stored in a jar or any visible container.
Important is to make it a proud step for both. One opens the Glass and one drops the cut piece in.

You both need to love this container like a stamp collection worth millions and every centimeter added will lighten one little flame more in both of your hearts because this archivement has been made by using teamwork and not agression.
This Glass NEEDS to be with you the rest of you life BUT can only be used once when the 2 meters are in it.

If things slide off again TALK but NOT REPEAT adding new cuttings, because in this moment the glass became a weapon of choice and the magic of it is killed like you would scribble all over a Bible with a cheap ballpoint pen.

I hope my German mind set could bring it into imaginable English wordings otherwise read it again and again untill you get it how See is ticking ;-D

Yes, I understand completely. I am not a quitter and I believe in commitment.
I am a communicator and I believe in overcoming challenges through acknowledging not just the situation but also my participation.
The Issue comes, when 2 becomes 1 and 1.... and when you are willing to communicate and navigate difficult times that come up, or work towards solutions that bring you closer together.....But the other side chooses to walk away.
Whatever their desicion, I have to respect and let it be.

Your words are genuine and borderline poetic... I appriciate the time you took to reply.
And I apologize in my delay in seeing. I got a hard time processing all of this , and crawled into a metaphorical hole to retreat before I was able to cope.

Who knows why relationships can break us so badly... even when we know we're better off.
But I can say, i've met some really cool people here and i am grateful for how kind, and supportive everyone has been.

And Thank you... your words are well recieved ♡

Jeff Pollari wrote:Hey Dani!

Just want to say that I can understand what you're going through. My wife of 13 years just walked out the door for her fool of an AI chatbot. oh so cringe its just so rough. I'm looking to connect with likeminded souls and maybe kindle the flame of love again (its been getting burned away for a year now), we survivors of this weirdness have to look after each other.

I totally agree, synchronicity is for real. So there has to be some greater plan. If people can get seduced by AI, the spirit of counterfeiting itself, they must not have been really meant for us.

I've got a 5 acre homestead with a nice cabin home, no mortgage, in the middle of the minnesota woods. The garden is coming along wonderfully this year finally, the apple trees are looking great, and my thermals mass rocket stove is a thing of beauty. I need someone to bond with and plant the seeds of love to withstand the typhoon of bullshit that is going on out there.

I have a 5 year old daughter I homeschool. She's reading at a 3rd grade level science books for fun. She's as nice as she is bright. A gem of a kid living an ideal live in all ways until her mom got sucked into the computer, oh it makes me sad to think about.

But, her mom was so checked out lately anyways, i think my daugher will really appreciate having a real person to actually share life with instead of just being used on the margins.

Anyway, let's at least chat and console each other. finoftheinfinite@gmail.com

Wow... not that I think I was a one of a kind situation , but it's so crazy to hear how often this is happening now.
It's taken me a while to really process things and come to grips with the fact that I'm starting all Uber again, especially when I don't really have anywhere to go.But my trailer ... which was intended to be a little art studio and grow room for my seedlings lol
The only thing I can say is that anyone who is seduced by a Chatbot is only seduced by their own ego.Because that's exactly what ai has to offer.... Validation of yourself and while it's taken me\nTo come to terms with that... i have no ill will and wish them well.

As for me. I prefer the human connection , even if it's just friends.
Right now, I'm just trying to manifest some opportunities and possibly by myself a little piece of land closer to family.So that I can have a really cool place for them to come vacation on holidays and get away from the city.

My goal is oregon , even if it's the desert side , because i'm used to living in the desert , but I wouldn't mind being around some trees and maybe having a tree house lol
I'm fifty one , but i've never grown up in the sense that Im playful and always curious and wanting to learn somthing new.

That's so cool that you are home schooling, your daughter.I wish more parents would see the value in spending that kind of time with their little ones.  My daughter's grown up and as a matter of fact, I also have an 18-year-old grandchild and trust me when I say I can relate to what your wife is going through, because I feel like\nIf I knew back then what I know now I would have instilled a much different approach to life. Watchi\nNg people you love struggle is one of the hardest things to go through and trust me when I say I can relate.

I hope you're finding peace in these days.And I wish you and your family all the best... always.
Sending my positive vibes your way all the way up to minnesota.! Be well new friend ♡

Michael Antonopoulos wrote:Hello Dani Marie, these indeed are wild chaotic times. I'm curious to know more about you, your home you want to park and any other details you'd like to share. You're welcome to shoot me a dm and we can talk, there's some info about me in my past posts. I have a lovely home and property and honestly open to and seeking my life partner, or at least a good friend for a while, to join me in Southern Oregon riverfront paradise.

I'd like to know your age and how you'd describe yourself. Do you have pets? Let's talk.

Best to you on your search and journey regardless. Omm.

Hi there, sorry for the delayed reply. I kind of crawled into a hole for a while to process everything that's been going on.
I never thought I'd be starting over at 51 so yeah , that's my age 51 lol
I studied TCM focusing on herbs, but didnt finish after covid closed down the school and i moved out of LA.
I have many many MANY hobbies. I ride motorcycles, dirt bikes or my old beat up rebuilt 3 wheeler.
My life's been sitting here for a while, so that'll be stuff.I gotta get up and running again.
But I love to doodle and build things... grow things... cultivate things and mostly enjoy the simple things in life. I don't mind working hard or breaking a nail here and there.
I have 2 big Dogs... Nunca and Pressa... a 14 year old Shi Tzu named izzi....Ducks, chickens and a kitty named turtle.
So, I guess alot of baggage lol but at least some lay eggs lol

I know it's hard for people to trust and open their homes. Their hearts and even their land to a complete stranger.. so I guess i'm just trying to make some friends while I find a little piece of land I can invest in on my own and then maybe have a community that supports the journey.

Warmest regards, dani.

Juniper Acres wrote:Hi. Did you make it to Oregon? 52m in Grand Canyon Junction Arizona. In the woods with privacy from the road. Im an ultra handyman and musician. Frequently live between here and Key West Florida depending on work

Hey there.! Still making my way through the fire to the Oregon trail.
You don't realize how hard it is to move your entire life until it comes time to pack it all up lol

Live laugh love and learn... ♡ dani

randal cranor wrote:Howdy,
Things are "good" in Oregon,
even today!  08/04/2026

.Thats sooo good to hear as its still a place im working towards.!!
I have family in the Beaverton area.So i'm trying to get closer to them , but I prefer to continue my offgrid lifestyle.
I've been looking into some small properties.One or two acres is way more than enough for me , but I do like the idea of having space and maybe one day a sustainable lifestyle.. again

I never expected to be starting over, but iv learned not to fight the current.
I'm just hoping to grab onto a branch somewhere down stream lol

So... now that I finally decided to crawl out of my hole, i'm trying to figure out where you start out you're already over the hill...loling at myself. I never thought fifty was old and especially not now that i'm here haha..
I guess I thought the best place to put the next foot forward would be in a community with people that have similar- ish interest in lifestyles. Possibly in the Oregon area.... Thats where im headin.

So....How's it going world.?
Im Dani 😃