Hi ladies, I didn't go through all 4 pages on this topic but I thought I would alert you to a product that might make your lives easier.
http://www.go-girl.com/ offers a reusable/ washable medical grade silicone cup with nosel that allows you to pee while standing, without the mess. you simply hold the cup to your groin and go! they are also for sale on amazon.com check them out!
from their website: "Re-Usable and Earth Friendly
Because GoGirl is reusable, it’s environmentally smart. Our active lifestyle girls are our most loyal customers and they love that it’s reusable. The medical-grade silicone is so tough it can withstand boiling water and remains supple. It’s easy to re-use your GoGirl. Wash with soap and water, and dry. The medical-grade silicone dries quickly and you can shake it lightly to help dry. "
