We bought our property 1.5 years ago and found ourselves facing your predicament as well. We've tried a few things:
1. Raking/mowing down the grass as far as we could, then covering with a tarp for a few months. That only worked slightly. The grass
roots didn't die, and they were thatched like crazy! We felt like we'd wasted our time with that.
2. Double digging. It worked okay, I guess, but grass still popped up. (And crabgrass crept in. Oh how I despise crabgrass!)
3. Digging as deeply as we could with a shovel and throwing the contents onto a hardware-cloth sifting table my hubbie built. Then as a family, we all pushed around the root clods until all the dirt was back in the ground. The roots got burned. That was, by far, the most effective method for us. But boy howdy, that's
hard work!!
4. Our new favorite method is to completely dig out as much of the dirt (dead sand, absolutely no tilth) and dump it with the grass into a large pile at the back of the property to just decompose on its own. We fluff up the remaining soil and add
compost back in until the soil level is about back to where it originally started. The old grass is composting gradually on its own in those piles. We'll use it when it's composted, or we'll sift it out if necessary. This method seems to be less labor-intensive than sifting it out right away.
5. We're hoping to do more raised bed
gardening in the future, but with construction supplies being so expensive, we'll continue in-ground beds for the foreseeable future.
If you are able to use a sod cutter again, I'd suggest removing it completely from the garden area and letting it compost in a separate place. If your grass roots are like mine, they're indestructible!