Unfortunately you cannot just add anything to water to soften it. Hard water means it has a lot of minerals, so adding SEA-90 minerals would just be adding more minerals.
You'd need to run your water through an ion exchange filter to get rid of the excess minerals (that I'm assuming you don't want because mineral deposits would clog up your spray equipment over time.)
Whole house softener systems are the expensive option, but if you're just using this water for spraying specifically then maybe you can get away with just buying a softening filter made to mount to a
shower head.