Digging out the pond you have in a good area is probably a good first and early step. There's very little that isn't "fixable" in some form or fashion, and working with nature and aiming for
permaculture just seems to mean that you can try a thing and try a different thing if the first thing doesn't work out well.
There's always a tomorrow. It might not look like today, but it'll be there.
As far as grasses? I'll share what one of my old agrarian professors told me in the long ago dark days - If it's green and sheep will eat it, it's a tender grass. That means it's good for everything that grazes. If it's not low and soft, it's too tough and you should mow and/or reseed depending on where you are. Height-wise, graze horses, then
cattle, then sheep, then poultry. That keeps things regenerating and means the land has a chance to recover.
Every critter will have favorites. One of my current geese loves (LOVES!) sorghum seed heads and will knock down a plant to get to them. Another goose likes the young, soft grass (some sort, no telling what.) that sprouts up around the garden edges. She likes to "help" weed by cleaning up what I pull. The third goose just wades right in to the mint patch. She once ate a whole pot of peppermint, including the roots, so I am letting it spread right now in hopes it can survive her.
Basically, try your ducks out on the easy and short stuff first. If I remember from my various reading, ducks like water plants and bugs/snails and such. Maybe put a board or flat surface down in a damp area so you can flip it over once every few days for a buggy treat? Quick sprouting rye, wheat (you can get a bag from your
local feed store and just scatter it out), or whatever you find locally that isn't treated with anything. As long as you stay away from grass seed soaked in some chemical or additive it should be safe for your birds.
I haven't had any cracked corn grow, yet. I keep wondering if it might considering that some of those kernels aren't very cracked.
As far as potential problems with things sprouted out of the birdseed? Yeah, the millet and other grasses will grow pretty tall if you let them. They also mow pretty well as long as you don't let them get too high first. The sorghum we have is allowed to set seed, to humor the geese, so it easily hits 8 feet more or less. Sunflowers can get pretty tall, but they're pretty and fun bright spots, plus the
chickens like to eat them when they're young. Wheat is just a nice tender grass that everyone seems to enjoy. The milo and millet grow well and mow well.
Our working theory on grasses is that if it's green and you can mow it, it's a grass. If it's not green and you can mow it, it's still a grass but not a young grass and it might resprout. This covers everything from wild fenugreek and wheat grass to sunflowers, small mulberries, wild mints, native grasses, and very small trees. Obviously it's not any sort of scientific declaration, but more for ease of care. If it can be mowed and is somewhere where it will get mowed, it's allowed to be there and get mowed. That keeps the plants that don't do well with mowing from being in places where they aren't as appreciated, but means that I don't fuss much about what goes where.
To get native/wild plants for your property, I really advise driving around. If you have a drainage ditch that's filled with water most of the year nearby, you can harvest some of the tougher local plants from that. Or talk to your neighbors. They may be planning on dredging a water tank, redoing a ditch or otherwise disrupting something watery and might like a helping hand that can be bought with cattails or reeds, or a
bucket of water hyacinth, duckweed, or hydrilla.
Your pond isn't deep enough or established enough to have it's own system going, yet. If you can get it a good 3 feet deep and good sized then it can easily handle an ecosystem that will build up over years. Right now it's pretty much a scrape or wallow, which is great for what it is, but not something stable. Where you decide to go with it is up to you and how you plan to keep your ducks. Water sources are great for encouraging wildlife and native plants, but are also a problem because they encourage wildlife and native plants.
Whatever you decide to do, you can always change your mind later. There's nothing as exciting as moving to a new property and getting to start making plans. You can always change your mind and redo things.
Best thoughts!