Hi Steve,
I'd actually bypass the reed bed element completely and use the effluent as an irrigation source within my garden. If you lay the piping out following standard codes for the surface area, then you should be ok legally. Then if you use a ribbit.ie splitter to get the effluent exactly where you want, you can use it to water your trees. Note that it should only be used as part of a subsurface system, so that you don't have contaminants at surface level.
If the runoff from the composting system is very concentrated you may have an issue with burning the plant
roots with excess nitrogen. How much liquid volume would you expect to get in a given day? Is it all the water from the toilet? If so, that should be ample to dilute the nutrients present.
If this sounds appealing, let me know and I'll elaborate a little on the set up. Or visit oasis.net for more background.
Art Ludwig's site on grey water
reuse is a mine of information.