posted 5 days ago
Land Share Opportunity – Quiet, Cooperative Living Near Silver City, NM
Private 5-acre parcel within a quiet 10-acre rural property, offering autonomy, dark skies, and a low-stimulation living environment.
I own a total of 10 acres about 8 miles from Silver City, New Mexico, at the end of a 1.5-mile gravel road in a rural subdivision where all parcels are five acres or larger. I live on one separate 5-acre parcel, and the landmate would have their own distinct 5 acres to themselves. This is a quiet, low-traffic area with dark skies, well suited to people who genuinely enjoy rural living and personal space. The two parcels are adjacent but function independently, allowing for privacy and autonomy for both parties.
I’m looking for one person, a couple, or a small family interested in a long-term, cooperative land-sharing arrangement. This is not a communal living situation; it is best suited to someone who values independence alongside respectful, low-key cooperation.
The living environment
This is a calm, low-stimulation setting. I am a deeply introverted person and value quiet, respectful coexistence. This would be a good fit for someone who is comfortable with independence, clear boundaries, and minimal noise or chaos.
Children are welcome. I like dogs and cats, and I’m open to animals that can live respectfully on the land.
What I value in a landmate
• Quiet, calm, respectful behavior toward people and the land
• Emotional self-awareness and personal responsibility
• Ability to communicate clearly and de-escalate rather than escalate
• Interest in personal growth (emotional, mental, physical) without expecting others to “do the work” for them
• A cooperative, collaborative mindset rather than a hierarchical or adversarial one
My own approach to communication and cooperation is informed by non-violent communication, Internal Family Systems, and the Continuum Concept, but I’m not looking to teach or therapize — just to live with someone who values self-regulation, safety, and mutual respect.
Land use, stewardship & development
• I am specifically looking for someone interested in actively developing their 5-acre parcel using permaculture or regenerative land-use principles
• This is not a passive or purely residential arrangement; thoughtful land design, care, and long-term stewardship matter to me
• Experience with permaculture, regenerative agriculture, or homesteading is a strong plus
• Genuine interest in learning, planning, and implementing permaculture-style systems over time is welcome
• Respectful, intentional stewardship of the land is essential
Important boundary
We can be supportive and considerate of one another, but each person is responsible for their own past, healing, and regulation. This is intended to be a safe, grounded living situation — not a therapeutic or codependent arrangement.
Living situation & infrastructure
• Resident(s) would need to provide their own living setup
• RVs and tiny houses are fine; tents or yurts are acceptable
• There is an electric pole on the land, but it would need to be hooked up
• Utility hookup can be slow and is estimated around $5,000
• I currently live off-grid using a plug-and-play solar inverter/generator system and have done so for five years
• This area has abundant sunshine, and off-grid solar works well here
Housing / Financial arrangement
• Work trade or rent, depending on skills, contribution, and overall fit
• Possibility of purchasing the land in the future for the right person(s)
• Clear agreements preferred; no assumptions
Practical details to discuss
• Type of dwelling (RV, tiny home, etc.)
• Utilities and setup
• Scope of work trade (if applicable)
• Financial terms
• Length of stay
I’m not in a hurry and prefer to find the right fit rather than fill the space quickly. If this resonates, please reply with a brief description of yourself (and anyone else who would live with you), how you live day-to-day, and what you’re looking for in a land-sharing situation.
