Carla--yes, the notion we all have that it would be offensive to jump in a stranger's face to admire their garden or ask how they do it so well, is wrong 90% of the time. Most people love to teach what they know. And we need to overcome the distrust of strangers that has so weakened our culture.
And- Tim--your neighbor's peach tree that's loaded while squirrels have made off with all yours--could it be that your neighbor's beautiful peaches spring from a vigorous spray program, and that the squirrels can smell the toxins and prefer your organic fruit? Or else they have dogs who are sometimes loose in the yard.
And finally, Carla--I bought 200 of those organza bags last year, hoping they'd protect my fruit from the squirrels, and I think it was PARTIALLY successful. Those bags are marketed especially for protecting the fruit from insects, are made by multiple companies mostly in China, and all I have seen are green. Once the squirrels--or bugs--are honed in on your tree, they'll find the fruit regardless of color camouflage, but it slows them down. I used the bags that weren't damaged again this year--not on peaches, which didn't set fruit, people say because of a frost, but my pear didn't even flower, only one of my four blueberries did--I think last year's prolonged drought, in a year when everything set fruit heavily, took so much out of the trees and blueberry bushes, that they took this year off to recharge. But I did get some apples (early apples, and there are still apples on Goldrush and Enterprise).