I do like and see the rightness in the 2 observations in Paul's original post, and/but have a few points to add (with good, (too?) positive if not the best of spirits/intents, and unlike some of the, um, less-positive descriptive language Paul used):
1) Imagine if there was a scale like this, but for conventional social statuses (which I believe are largely driven by spirits of competition, exclusiveness, & maybe a lot of those "less-positive" attitudes too, you know?). So 2 conventional-oriented scales that come to mind are (a) academic achievement (from drop-outs/all Fs to Harvard scholarship for example) and (b) income (basically like from broke to billionaire). Regarding Observation 1, to expect one to move higher on these conventional scales (and fast) may not be as realistic since these very, if not inherently, exclusive social structures may not pair well with many people's natures, tendencies, spirits. However, to expect one to move higher (more quickly) in the (Wheaton) eco-scale (up to ~ level 6, and/but with dynamic descriptions of the levels, especially relating to the extent permacultural type ethos/activities became much more prevelant in society) seems to be more realistic/reasonable, as the (highly responsible, ideal) way of permaculture, though can express very differently in different contexts, is arguablly the most conforming/equitable/appropriate to most all of our various natures (and spirituality aside).
2) Speaking of having different natures/tendencies, another point is that some are more sensitive, or need to figure it out for themselves / get there on their own more, don't like to be told by others, etc.. For people (like a teacher/coach/trainer with tougher love/expectation) to have high expectations for one to advance as much and ASAP on the eco-scale, can definitely be seen with nuance, varying for all the unique individuals and their varying situations, environmental/living conditions, etc., but... it can be amazing what is possible with the right understandings, values, willingness, love, strength, (sobered with how ingrained & overwhelming the conventional way of life is for many of us who may not be as resilient to needed changes).