Used to commute 30 miles/30 min one way to work. Traffic usually wasn’t too bad, and I think the quiet time was actually good for me in some way. Even in an economy car, it consumed a ton of fuel, tires, oil, etc. Can’t believe the expense people incur doing long commutes in larger vehicles.
It is around 20 miles round trip to the nearest town. I try not to go unless I have 3-4 errands to do. My wife doesn’t mind doing it 2-3x a day. I’d be happy if it was one time a week.
I do love a good road trip and have done them, on average, 1-2x a year my entire life. 3k miles is routine to visit some family. Longest was over 8k miles. I’d do even more, but my wife gets a bit burned out on them.