Hi Margaret,
I hope you find some good help, soon. I am too far away to come help, but I have seen your post a few times and I thought I would ask you if you have tried posting on the 'homesteads looking for helpers/helpers looking for homesteads' Facebook page? Folks seem to get a variety of responses there, and I think more people might see it there. Forgive me if you have already tried this avenue. I wish you and your husband the best in finding a great fit.
Here is the link for reference:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1170929359747979
Cheers,
Susanna