'Queen of the Hood' is what I sometimes think of myself as. I've managed to purchase 3 consecutive lots on the edge of a low income district in Wichita, KS. My neighbors are great and I have very little trouble with transients passing through. I also don't enjoy the lights or noise but I'm here and it's paid for and as I interpret Anastacia in the 'Ring Cedars Series', "Start where you are and learn before you move to a cleaner place". I'm 69 and probably won't be moving again.
The lawn gets pretty relaxed with seed heads but I try to keep the bulk of the paths and easements at our 8" or below height. It's getting more difficult to find a mower that you can raise the blades up high but I don't mow any more than I have to. Planting Dutch clover helps though I have to replant it now and again in my zone 7a after dry summers. And I'm trying different low growing plants to add to those mowing areas. The more you keep defined areas of low and then taller plants, the more people feel comfortable with a fuller landscape. And neighbor opinions are important.
My Dwarf Nigerian goats are shaping my planting focus as well as a food forest for me too. I was required to petition my neighbors to get permission to have 'a goat' (I have 2, shhh, they're dwarves) and ended up having a great time meeting my neighbors. They stop by to pet or feed the does, and kids love them. Some high school girls helped me herd them back in once when the does escaped. The goats love bagged leaves to eat and I cover the deep litter mini barn with bagged leaves that I pick up or that my gardening business brings back. I also supplement with hay, alfalfa and minerals. Their milk is so sweet and creamy, not goaty at all.
3-5 chickens are plenty for me. They work up the whole 3 lots that equal 150' x 150'. It's divided into 5 paddocks for the goats and chickens to graze. I supplement them with a little grain and may expand to collect food scraps for the chickens and maybe goats from local cafes or smaller grocery shops.
Bridgit and I also trade one day a week with each others land projects. It helps keep us motivated and actually get things done. We shape our land, build infrastructure (though it's a little crooked sometimes), process fruits, veggies, herbs, and animals together. What ever needs done, we try to do it ourselves. Otherwise, we call for help.
My Toyota Highlander SUV works great for hauling chickens, goats, or 5 bales of alfalfa. The Highlander helped to relocate 35 coons and possum from the live trap last year, which is getting really old. I'm toying with the idea of tanning their hides while I watch YouTube in the winters. I need a new seat cover anyway but those animals are really tough to skin. Any tips on that would be appreciated.
This is my 'Healthy Aging Plan" and I'm teaching homesteading classes and slowly starting a community garden and working with other organizations with similar interests. The land is being titled as a non profit for feeding people and helping them learn about aware connection with their spaces. I think that my SS check with me working the land is a good model for families interested in alternative lifestyles. So, that adds purpose to my life and helps to make it worth the city noise, lights, and the blowing trash that I pick up regularly.
And forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet
and the winds long to play your hair.
Khalil Gibran