A fairy tale—- once open a time, in a different world far, far, away, there was a farm girl who loved to fly and visit others’ farms and botanical gardens. She so much enjoyed these adventures that she would usually fly to neighboring islands once every month, and to the far away countries once a year. Oh how she loved it, bringing home special prizes of exotic seeds and plants (of course, abiding by import and quarantine rules). She gladly spent her time between trips saving money for her next trip by happily selling her vegetables & fruits, eggs, lambs, goats, and rabbits.
But things began to change. Seats got smaller and uncomfortable. More passengers got crammed into the airplane. Carry on luggage got more restrictive. She had to pay for her checked in bags. Free meals and snacks on the plane disappeared, and what was offered at high prices was essentially crap. She couldn’t even take her own sodas or juice through the check in process for drinking on the plane. And the check-in process could take 3 hours to get through the lines. The fun was gradually being squeezed out of flying. Soon she found herself just flying locally from island to island because the fun had died.
Then an evilness descended……COVID. She watched so many of her friends return from trips, suffering from Covid. Being elderly and with pre-existing health problems, she was concerned. Was it worth taking the risk, and possibly end up with a long hospital stay? Even possibly end up with distressing "long Covid", or even possibly die? So she restricted her trips to one neighboring island, using an airline with small prop planes and small passenger numbers to reduce the risk.
Then along came 2023. Absolute heart wrenching disaster! Lahaina burned!!! Lahaina was her Maui Island "home away from home" for 10 of her trips a year. Watching what happened, having friends lose not only their homes and businesses but also people that they knew, watching while it all was destroyed just broke the farm girl’s spirit. Knowing that she would never enjoy those businesses again, never see the old feeble guy who would ride the rickety bike to the wharf, never watch the crazy guy talking to invisible people, never buy an ice cream cone for the elderly bag lady, never invite the hotel resident cat into her room at night, never again….never again….never again. The farm girl’s heart was permanently broken beyond mending.
So……….. I have not flown since June 2023.