Long hair for all genders in our household. We trim each other's hair using one of those plastic crea-clips. It looks very gimmicky. Was gifted to me by a coworker and turned out to be perfect. I haven't been to a hairdresser in years (oh and how they love to cut hair short). I find that you can turn long hair into short hair but not the other way around
Overall, for us, long hair is LESS maintenance. We both wash, condition, apply scalp oil (homemade), and occasionally blowdry (dyson blowdryer was an investment, but dries even long hair quickly). I grew up with short hair and, let's just say, never again. I should note that having wavy hair also is a challenge with shorter hairstyles for me where weird curls stand out.
I am very low key with styling. Primarily, it's hair down, braid, low bun, high bun, ponytail, half up with a clip in the back for special events
I also use silk scrunchies of all sizes.
Personally, I feel like I am saving money and time by having long hair.