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Ciao! I am an INTJ/Capricorn new to the concept of permaculture, minimalism, conservation, intentional community and am now, since my only child is 18, traveling the world and exploring new depths of myself and this life. If we must throw out labels, I guess I'm liberal, agnostic, and a total Nomad hippie 🤣

I'm hoping to meet someone I work well together, have chemistry, and can build a life together, complimenting one another, and doing substantial and important works together. I am pansexual/sapiosexual and not hung up on looks or gender. I am a very quiet introvert and realize that I need a loving extrovert (sometimes dominant) energy to balance me. I'm working on a lot of emotional scars. I'm not perfect. But i have a good heart and i try to be a true servant to Ggod and spread love always. I am not superficial at all. I just want to share space and time with people whose focus is love.

I am originally from Los Angeles, California. I work as a virtual assistant, study business online, and am looking to travel the world volunteering half-time and develop land in the states the other half (I'm considering Washington state or North Carolina). I literally sold/donated everything I own to begin this new journey. I'm ok with landing anywhere in the world.

If you're attracted to what I'm saying or even just want to explore friendship or work together, feel free to reach out to me. Thanks!
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You post intrigues us a lot. We are an American and Vietnamese couple with a 12 yo super sweet daughter and new baby girl seeking shared polyamorous living on a super beautiful organic Lake Farm near the Tennessee River about two hours from Nashville.  Be part of our family. Love babies, animals, gardens, flowers and ready to live a healthy life. This is a super real, sincere place to get out of the craziness of the city and find peace in the country. We have a rare commodity - a completely private lake with excellent water for swimming, fishing or just enjoying. There are a lot of animals here and we grow great food. Pitch in and help us build some cabins on the lake! If you want to relocate and are able to do, we will provide everything you need including lots of love!  Nice place nicer people!
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ANH with some fresh organic cabbage.
 
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Sorry forgot to tell you that we have Messenger (you can get the app without joining Facebook) and can take a call, attachments or texts from anywhere in the world. Just send to Bernard Carl Conley. You can also look me up under that name as I published newspapers for 18 years and also played jazz saxophone so I have a online public presence.
 
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Bc Conley wrote:Sorry forgot to tell you that we have Messenger (you can get the app without joining Facebook) and can take a call, attachments or texts from anywhere in the world. Just send to Bernard Carl Conley. You can also look me up under that name as I published newspapers for 18 years and also played jazz saxophone so I have a online public presence.

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I wrote back with a long response and submitted but I dont know what happened. It didnt post! Grrr...I'll try to recap:

Hi BC! Thank you for your response. Your family looks lovely and I'm interested on learning more about you and Anh, your family, your farm and your mission for the homestead. Are you religious? Political? What are your world views and understanding of the African-American experience? I am looking for a tribe where I fit in and can do farmwork in exchange for room/board and cultural exchange ie friendship. Although the farmwork is important to me because I want to learn the skills necessary to live off grid, I am very much in need of a safe emotional space to get along with the people I'm working with. There has to be patience, respect, communication, and most importantly unconditional love. I am a work in progress.

I am traveling Europe atm, volunteering and working remotely as an assistant. I will be returning to the states in early September and hoping to start a work-exchange from October to March 2020. Although I prefer Washington, I am free to follow opportunities. I must also consider my son who is 18 and still figuring out what he wants to do, and I have a 3 yo black lab/pit mix who must be with me as he is my ESA (I have terrible anxiety). My son is an incredible young man! The love of my life! He is currently working and going to school in Lancaster, California but hes expressed interest in transferring to UW Seattle (which is why I prefer to relocate there). He will most likely not be joining me because he is in school and has his own ambitions, but should I come to your farm, you must know that he is a part of my package and must also be considered because if anything should come up with him I will have to leave to attend to my son or he may have to join me.

Anyway, we have ample time to chat and get to know each other so let's continue to chat here. Feel free to send me a private message here (Purple Mooseage) to avoid putting your personal details in this public forum. Thanks! And hope to chat soon...
 
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Also, I am interested to learn both of your personality types. It's important for me. If you're not sure, you can visit www.humanmetrics.com/personality to learn more and take a quick test. There is debate whether or not Carl Jung's personality study is credible but we use it at the college I work for to test students and identify what careers/majors they'd be best suited for. It's important for human beings to be connected in the environments that call to them. Each person wants to "belong" and do work that aligns with their personality. It's an interesting study and also fun to experiment with. I am noticing how i gravitate to very specific personality types in my own life and it makes sense why i am so driven to become an analyst. Not BECAUSE I'm an INTJ female. I am, who I am. But taking the test helps me put things into perspective for myself and also can help others understand me. So, if you're interested, you can also learn. Thanks
 
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I (Carl) took the Jung test: ENTJ...……...I have a strong personality that likes to "get things done" there is no doubt. From High School dropout to the Army (GED military) then to College as a Poetry major and B.A. in English; to teaching in the Masters program eventually earning a Doctorate in law - completion has been a central theme in my life. I am also a proven entrepreneur who has started many businesses from scratch: Research Firm; Law Practice; Sailing Charters; several bands (Google Carl Conley saxophone/music; a performing arts Theater; Arts Foundation; two newspapers (sold but still operating) and now the Lake Farm. The Lake is where I decided to relax more but we put in a lot of effort to transform our acreage into the jewel it is now and the transformation is ongoing. You said you liked someone with dominant tendencies who could motivate and I took that literally as I am that type of man. Anh is more laid back but still moves actively - in fact I tend to "lay up" more than her! LOL You express the need to be emotionally supported a lot including having an emotional support animal. Here we love our animals generally and see they are well taken care of but we also eat them Not sure how that affects you. We are both practical people and feel strongly that practicality rules when it comes to sustaining permaculture. We are almost entirely organic but will not hesitate to go outside of strict organicism if that is what is necessary to persevere. We are also both sexually active and we dont know how you approach that aspect of polyamorous living. Anyway - took the Jung test  as you suggested- so you know we are quite earnest about extending our family and "putting in the work" to move things forward...………..or not. LOL
 
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Oh and in the future we will use the private messenger but why dont you just use Messenger (its a Facebook app but you dont have to sign up for Facebook to use it) It works so well all over the world; texting, attachments; video chatting all free and so easy to use. Just a suggestion but I have used it in over twenty countries and it works very well. Just look me up Bernard Carl Conley and send a messenger and I will accept.
 
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One other question: Where is the private message feature you called purple mooseage located exactly?
 
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Hi BC;  Click on her name and it will go to her profile.  Once there you will see an envelope in the top right, clicking it will open the PM system to contact her.
 
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Hey thanks a lot for the info on PM very thoughtful of you!
 
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Update: I am still looking for a partner.
 
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DeeDee:
Let me know if you end up in the Pacific Northwest! I'm gay but always looking for more friends. I know people across a lot of the region, too, so if you end up almost anywhere over here I can link you up with some friends! I do food forestry and pollinator activism. I'm trying to get community food forests planted in public spaces.
 
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James Landreth wrote:DeeDee:
Let me know if you end up in the Pacific Northwest! I'm gay but always looking for more friends. I know people across a lot of the region, too, so if you end up almost anywhere over here I can link you up with some friends! I do food forestry and pollinator activism. I'm trying to get community food forests planted in public spaces.



Hi James! Let's stay in touch...I'm hoping to land in Washington and am always open to making friends with good-hearted people. Who knows? Maybe we can barter or work together ;)
 
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Living my best life! Just a few pics of me from my time backpacking these last few months in Italy and Albania...I'm always open to platonic friends with good-hearted people but I'm still hoping to meet someone I can build a life with...
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Albert Habi wrote:Hi

Please email me at habimalb@gmai.com if still looking.

Have a good day.



Hello Albert! Yes, I am still looking. Tell me about yourself here please or send me a private message on Permies. Thanks!
 
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Albert Habi wrote:Hi DeeDee
I thought it would be easier to communicate by email/hangout.  I had written my address incorrectly; the correct address is habimalb@gmail.com.  I'm not always on this site.  I am african, however, I am a very serious guy with what I am trying to achieve in life.  I live in Ghana, Accra but, I am moving to one of the villages to implement a permaculture programme based on what I have been learning on youtube and in the books.  I would like to live off the grid, growing my own food and selling the extra to generate some income.  I am looking for a lady who wouldn't mind going on this adventure with me and this website is I believe the best place to look.  I like to live a natural life, I am 45 years old.  I am reliable and I always do my best to get on with everyone as much as possible.  I hope you could consider Africa.  Despite all the negative publicity about Africa, I believe there are still many African countries which are very peaceful and Ghana is one of them.



That is very cool what you are aspiring to do! There is good and bad to every country. I was actually considering a trip to Africa next year. Ive heard beautiful things about Ghana. Do you travel outside of Africa? I am working towards my own goals within the US that I will not abandon, so I am willing to compromise and establish a relationship as long as my partner can consider my passions also and work together. Would you ever consider dual citizenship? Do you have children? What are your spiritual beliefs? I would prefer to chat on this site first and see where things go. You can send me a private message if you want. Thanks
 
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