posted 5 years ago
Sorry, I completely missed the second part of your question!
Neem oil was sugggested to me as a treatment for my bug problmes a few years ago, best sprayed on at night so the oils can soak in and not burn the plant in the sun.
If you do have Borers (look for "sawdust" like buildup towards the base of the stmems) you may have to do plant surgery to remove the larva from the inside. It probably seems drastic to slit the stems open and pull the bug out, but the alternative is that the whole plant dies. I'm crossing my fingers that it isn't borers and is instead some other wee little beastie that's bothering your squash!
I Solemnly Swear I am NOT the crazy cat lady!
*but not for a lack of trying!