Thanks for the tips on this a while ago.
I am sure we did not do it perfectly but we are living in our house now! (and like many DIYers I've known... it has a ways to go, haha) It may be that down the road we have to redo the lime plaster. While the workers were doing that part of the project, I was near to giving birth/shortly post-partum. I wanted to be more involved, but had to just boss the guys around a lot through my husband, who was involved on-site but not doing the research!
Mainly the reason I think we could have to redo the plaster within a couple of years-- while the guys did wet the daub before applying the plaster, they did not work the first layer into the clay like I had asked them to. Then, exterior door frames and floorboards were installed after the lime plaster was applied. The result is that there was a lot of violent pounding on the house. Next to one door frame, about a square meter of plaster fell away. Granted, that was the "experiment" section of wall where everything was always done worst, being the first time. The guys, who had tried convincing us to use quick concrete for an exterior plaster, assured us the same thing would have happened with a concrete coat, as hard as the carpenter was pounding boards into place.
Besides the little part that fell away, however, there are hairline cracks all over the place. This isn't immediately causing problems, but we'll at least be thoroughly whitewashing the house again before next rainy season. It's so beautiful how whitewash heals those tiny cracks! I just don't know what that means in the long run for the plaster in general. I'm preparing myself psychologically to redo the plaster in a few years, but hoping it holds up in spite of apparently not being keyed as well as it might have been. Living in a equatorial mountain climate, we don't have deep freezes to worry about.