In a process called the gift circle, everyone shares their needs eg. need dogwalking, editing help, haircut etc. Then others can volunteer to help them without barter or money being exchanged. Over time this builds a community as everyone helps everyone. https://opencollaboration.wordpress.com/2009/11/28/gift-circle-faq/
Make yourself as serene as a flower, as a tree. And on wednesdays, as serene as this tiny ad:
Contemplate spending the next 20 years puttering in permaculture projects