Thank you for the response.
I have been mowing high the entire year that I have been there. I have it on the highest setting of my mower which is about 3 inches. Unfortunately I have an acre and use a riding mower that has mulching blades but still has the chute attached. Therefore, it does not qualify as a mulching mower.
I have NO idea what type of grass is there other then there is a lot of clover. The house was built in the 1950's and I am pretty sure the people that lived there the five years before me could not have cared less about the lawn.
Since I fit into the cheap and lazy category this is a really good site for me. The one thing that I am considering is taking the tons of leaves that get dumped on my lawn and instead of hauling them off to the back
fence to sit for the next several years I will spread them out and use my push mulching mower on the highest setting to pulverize the pieces.
Based on your #2 suggestion would this be the best way to get a nice soft lawn?