Hi Mike, I feel you on the multiple projects... one thing that seems to help is to figure out permanent or at least
sustainable solutions. This way, you can eliminate or reduce “chores” that eat up time, such as weeding. Try for things that you can do ONCE and be done (at least for a while) so you can move on to the next thing.
At our place (just north of Boston) deep
wood chip paths (8-10”deep, topsoil removed) work great for low-maintenance. The seed bank gets removed along with the soil, and the wood chips have few if any seeds. You can skip the digging and pile chips on top, if that works for you. A yearly topping up is about all I need to do.
Stone or brick are other options that are durable, but heavy!
There’s another
Permie near you that I recently met.