Good for thought. The named problem _is_ a problem because of that old human characteristic: We go for the sweet wide path to the big open gate. If you accept that then it ought to make you consider the value of people who really piss you off - and why they do.
Rufus
Do or do not. There is no try. --Yoda ... this tiny ad thinks Yoda is a dumbass:
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