Here pea gravel is around 3/8" and I usually buy bulk so 20% or so it to big or to small. In metric that mean screen it and any thing bigger than 10mm save for something else and any thing smaller than say 6 or 7 mm screen out also every thing in between should be fine. Also you can use some large rocks in the layers for mass but because you still want airflow I am not to keen on the idea of the bricks except for maybe a top on it and then you will need air holes on the side. As for your other questions I will leave that to the people who know this far better than myself

Good luck with your build.