38 Trans Female Starter Permie Looking for queer community and Possible Female partner

So, I start off with stating I'm new to the permaculture universe and am I still in the planning stage. Im planning a small off grid homestead in far Northern California in the coming year. My chief target is to reduce my dependency on latest age capitalism through a mixture of foraging, hunting, fishing, intensive gardening and probably rabbits, chickens, goats and maybe alpacas.

Im having a hard time finding queer community in this and have faced bullying for being Transgender(male to female) and Lesbian(ive found a few others like me but we are few and far between). Im having an even harder time on the dating front.

Me:
38, Leo, Virgo Moon, Scorpio Rising
Eclectic Pagan
Average build, okay shape
I drink socially
Im drug free(420 friendly but I don't partake)
I don't use tobacco
Homestead Skills
Carpentry, Electric, Plumbering, basic mechanics, shooting(still need to add hunting), have raised chickens and rabbits in the past. Good a foraging sea vegetables(i love bull kelp)
Things I do outside of homesteading:
Camping, Backpacking and Kyudo(Japanese archery).

I looking for a female, 30-45 who is happy with homesteading, doesn't mind that I'm trans, neurospicy an serious about Kyudo.