My name is Graham and I recently moved to Bull Head City / Laughlin from Florida. I am mostly looking for female company but have no qualms if you are a guy and looking to network or be friends. If you would make time for me, I would be happy to make time for you - the trust and companionship that come from genuine relationships with all range of intimate connections - and maintaining those relationships - are how I conduct my 'love life'. My friends are my family and my love life! It follows then that I would try to maximize these connections with people like you and do not want to exercise any kind of emotional or physical ownership over others. Please, be free to grow in your own life too! I'm very accepting of alternative lifestyles and completely different viewpoints: combining our differences with respect and love and dedication is worth trying to work over any misunderstandings or disagreements for me. I hope you too spend time thinking about things in their bigger context too, even if thinking or acting like this isn't your style!
You should know that I self identify as heterosexual but also as demisexual. It essentially means that as the main population of sexual people often experience sexual attraction based on immediate interactions, and sometimes later based on relationship bonds and depth, a demisexual person only experiences sexual attraction based on the latter dynamic: we don't, for instance, respond with sexual interest to people we don't know - strip clubs are not as exciting for a demisexual person. We are 'half sexuals' in a sense.
We - you and me - should be whatever we can be is my philosophy! We can be casual friends, mates of the soul or mind, of mission or cause, we can be responsibly loving adult partners focused on our bigger ambitions, and hopefully above all we can be heartfelt friends for a very long time. If you do want a physical side of a relationship with me, you will please need to be direct and talk about it openly with me - if you try to honor gender roles and wait or be coy or drop subtle hints to test my response, I will all the same not take initiative and you will be left frustrated. I am comfortable making some compromises with my sexuality in the right conditions, with the right people or peoples, but we should communicate about wants and expectations (and lack of) first.
If you want to know more about me or my personality, you can ask openly here or feel free to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and please mention the permies.com forum in the subject line. Because I really want to meet you, I would also appreciate a 'moosage' letting me know you emailed me (I get spam a bit)
Looking forwards to meeting YOU! - Graham Elliott
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