Hi Jor, welcome to permies.com!
Jor Bib wrote:1)I can build my beds N-S, so that should be good, correct?
Should be good, and since you haven't really got any other options, go for it!
Jor Bib wrote:2) I only have a narrow space to plant between our arborvitae and our house. The space is 15' long and at the top 5'' wide but opens at the bottom to be 7'.
I'm assuming you meant 5' at the top... at least I hope so!
Jor Bib wrote:a) Is this space better suited for a simple small hugel or a big pile? I was thinking a bigger hugel might provide me with more area to plant?
The more hugel you can squeeze in, the more plants you can put in it. A 15' long hugel is still pretty moderate in size, and less fuss to do all at once in a single unit than to do several smaller ones. I'd be inclined to make it as big as location and inputs allow. Don't skimp on the nitrogen adding stuff, manures/greens!
Jor Bib wrote:b) How much space should I leave on each side of the beds so I can harvest?
I'd suggest just roughing out the shape with branches or cardboard and moving around it, to help you visualize. Depends to a certain extent on the length of your reach! Keep in mind that the sides will slope significantly...
Do you need to be able to walk past frequently with a wheelbarrow or other large objects? Or is there an alternative route, and this area is really only going to see garden traffic?
In my opinion many people underestimate the amount of space needed for access; I'd suggest allowing more space for access than you expect to want, and then just piling more dirt/manure on the hugel to expand appropriately if after a month you still feel there is too much pathway.
Jor Bib wrote:3) what happens years down the road to a hugel? Will I ever dig it up and restart and have to deal with getting rid of excess soil?
The hugel will settle over time as the wood decays and water carries soil down into the various little gaps. After some years(3-4 in my area) the hugel will be soil instead of soil over wood. You then have the choice of doing it all over, or considering the soil-building exercise a success and using the bed as it is. I don't really see the excess soil as a problem, as it will be quite nice, something you can relocate to somewhere on your property where the soil is lacking.
The thing I would worry about in your situation is the sides; these will get even less light than a flat bed in the same location, so it may be hard to fully utilize this part of the area. Also, in your tight location you don't want excessive sliding/erosion of the sides, and keeping them planted is good for stability...